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EXPERIMENTS:

1. BECOME AN INITIATOR EXPERIMENT Figure out what it is you need to learn. Then teach it. Meaning, you write about it, make a video, a website, give talks and workshops for Transformation into Adulthood. Because of what you learn is what you are teaching, your teaching is alive and is coming from your Integrity. What does the world need more than your Integrity?

Doing this allows you to take more conscious Responsibility towards Transformation and the ceation of NextCulture (Archearchy). Archearchy is the culture that emerges after Matriarchy and Patriarchy have run their course. They have run their course. Now it's time for your Initiations through your offering.

2. THINK ABOUT YOUR LAST RELATIONTSHIP How did it begin? Did it begin out of an coincidence? Did it bring you a totally new experience of life? Did it change you? Many meaningful relationships emerge out of coincidences. This is the entity of life. It is how the universe moves you together with other forces. It is the intelligence of the 'Earth Coincidence Contol Office' (E.C.C.O). When E.C.C.O. has already moved you intelligently into relationships, why not radically relying on it on a bigger level? Throw yourself into a transformational path with E.C.C.O. moving you. Do this by becoming an Edgeworker. Your edge is, where your way of doing and being differs from what you are used to. You change yourself by doing it. When you are changing, you Cause Transformation. Causing Transformation is being on a transformational path. It works vice versa. Go to your edge, stay there as long as you can. Can you stay there forever? Start before next week.

3. WRITE ON TOILET PAPER 'I have to be perfect, I should be perfect, I will please my mom and dad if I am perfect, I'll be happier if I am perfect'. Crumple it up and flush it down the toilet.

4. BE THE GREAT MOTHER BEING THE ALL Dedicate a certain amount of time each day (5 to 60 min) to let yourself Shift Identity from a personality-construct (= what you are identified with = your Box?) to being grounded into being the All. This allows you to get accustomed to being the Great Mother and stay grounded while doing this. Take your time with it. Practice being grounded into being the All. It takes practice to inner navigate and hold space for this force of nature (especially if you are male). This is the force of the feminine archetypal nature within you (see Archetypal Love). Move through rooms and brush your teeth like this. Eat an apple like this. Hold your child like this. Doing this gives you a broader connection into the vast feminine archetypal nature that is always accessible within a small now. After some weeks of practice, start speaking from there to your loved ones. Acknowledge the results.

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1. ARCHETYPAL LOVE BEING TO BEING EXPERIMENT Gaze into the eyes of people on the screen. Drop out of mind and notice the sensation of being connected. Notice the energetic connection we are having now. We are gathered together in the name of Love. Notice this happening in this space. Notice your physical sensations. Close your eyes and notice what color it is. Clinton calls it 'Yellow Stuff'. Bring this awareness into a WorkTalk or group of people and then speak about what is happening = Love happening. Tap into the Yellow Stuff. How many spaces can you open up with Yellow Stuff and then hold the space where the Love and mystery is alive?

2. KURT VONNEGUT JR. WROTE A BOOK that is on the PM Recommended Books titled Cats Cradle. In this book Kurt Vonnegut writes, "Live by the foma* that make you brave and kind and healthy and happy." (The word 'foma' means 'harmless untruths'.) In another book, Mother Night, Mr. Vonnegut writes: "We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." This Experiment is to intentionally Shift Identity so that you walk through your day being Brave, and Kind, and Healthy, and Happy. Then you have more Resources to go through Doorways, and more Possibilities to create Connection and Intimacies that feed you and the others in your deep Beings.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. BEING IN THE UNKNOWN The territory of the unknown is accessed by holding space for your own Conscious Fear. Conscious Fear is one of your 4Feelings. Feelings are neutral Resources that carry information and energy for you. They are not coming from your mind. Feelings are in your Emotional Body. They carry the intelligence of your heart. The feeling of Conscious Fear intelligently connects you with everything. This includes everything you know and everything you don't know. Especially everything you might never know with your mind. Outside of the known is only vast unknown. Which Resource is bigger? The known or the unknown? Where do you access more Possibilitiy? Here is a door to enter the unknown. Look someone in the eyes once a day, and for no reason say, "I don't know." Give no excuse, stand in your full Power, and be in the unknown when you do this. Stay in the unknown. Where do take the conversation from there?

2. USING UNREASONABLE FORCES Reasons are made up by humans. This is the same with Beliefs. Everyone can make up any Belief about anything. Beliefs do not require to be connected to reality. Nor do reasons! You can believe in any reason without any reason. Are you making up reasons? Then you are making up Fantasy Worlds. Have you ever made up a reason against something you deeply wanted to do? Which are the reasons you can make up right now so to not keep reading? Do you get it? By creating these reasons, it is you who gives your Power away to the reasons! It is also you who takes your power back from them. With your Conscious Will you choose where you put your power. If you don't choose consciously, you choose unconsciously. Then you probably unconsciously put your power into reasons and Beliefs. You do not need to put your power into any reason and any Belief. Take your power back from reasons.

Here is how it goes: Do something without any reason. Do this right in the beginning of a conversation, a WorkTalk, or any situation. Suddenly unreasonable forces gain acces to you. When you move forward being the vehicle for unreasonable forces, you are Going Unreasonable! Be Aware! One does not know before what will happen.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. ALCHEMICALLY TRANSORM 'WHAT YOU WANT TO HAVE HAPPENED' INTO 'WHAT HAPPENED' By trying to understand Archetypal Love or something Extraordinary (e.g. the 'Yellow Stuff') you try to hold on onto the past. Therefore, what you are trying to hold on is already gone. The mind is too slow. It's like when you are ropewalking. The moment you use your mind, you fall.

Instead transform what you want to have happened using alchemy. Write down the Extraordinary that you want to have happened just the way it is (the alchemy = inc goes on paper). Do this using no opinions. No Beliefs. No reasons. No explanations. Using them would only make you fall out of grace about what you are writing down.

Instead. Practice the ropewalking. It happens in a very Small Now with no thinking and no analysis. Let Your Being name what you want to have happened. Write. Then leave the paper and pen. You cannot undo what you wrote. It has been forever written. Your writing builds Matrix in you to Hold Space for the Extraordinary. Practice over and over again.

2. HAVE MULTIPLE IDENTITIES Develop 1 or 2 characters who you can slide into. They have their own hobbies, intricacies, histories, could be different sex and talk in their own way with their own voice. Do once a day and for no particular reason Shift Identity into one of these characters. This expands rigidity and grip of Your Box identity. Your Box is your childhood Survival Strategy. Many human beings tend to unconsciously stay in their Survival Strategy. Doing this is Creation of the Ordinary by having a Box-Life and being a Zombie. With less rigidity and grip of Your Box you gain acces to more Resources. By using your Conscious Anger to Shift Identity you become a Person Of Agency who Creates Possibility, Invention and you Cause Adventure. All this you do by Choosing your alternative character and playing it out. Are you in? Play it out once a day for 5 or 10 minutes.

3. STAY ON THE EDGE OF LOVE EXPERIMENT Being present means Being With what is. Being With what is creates that you put Your Attention onto the present moment. The present moment can be called a Small Now. Which is only NOW(!) because the future is yet to come and the past is already gone. Simple, right? But to Be With what is in the Small Now is easier said than done. It involves preperation, starting with Becoming Centered. Check out Becoming Centered if you are not familiar. Then continue here. In a Small Now you can find different Gaps. Start with looking for the Gap In Noise. First it takes your Noticing for the noise and then for the Gap inbetween the noise. Try this: When talking to someone, remain silent for 3 seconds longer before you say the next thing. Suddenly you Become Present in this Gap of Noise that you are opening up. This causes that you slow down. Now stay on this edge, and keep talking while staying in Connection with the Gap In Noise. You don't need to be in your head at all. Instead, endure the intensity and the fear from this edge. This edge is a Doorway to the Space where Love happens.

(Note: After a month of Practice, use another Gap of the 9Gaps to Build Matrix)

4. GO FIND YOUR MATE FOR EXPERIMENTS If you are single and on your own, go find someone right now for no reason and break all the rules. You don't need to use the construct of monogamy. Instead, Heal from Monogamy. You don't need to use any construct. Constructs are full of rules. They would be just in your way while experimenting. And you would be locked in by having locked in yourself. So, break all the rules and find someone. It isn't about sex, kissing or any physical contact. It's about interacting. There are outnoumerous ways to be together in Experiental Reality and to Negotiate Intimacy. Choose from these 27Experiments or any other experiment you come up with. Create a chamber of experiments like the alchemist has an oven with a lot of heat in it to work with. Tell the other person you need them for creating that heat in the experiential chamber. The chamber is your experiential space. Both of you can develop a Pirate character who has Power to break rules. Then break your own rules about what you cannot create. Become Creation. This can be your first experiment. Which rules are you both breaking? What do you create instead? Commit to your created chamber until it explodes. Then create the next one with the next person. Go and make yourself dirty. Otherwise you are not experimenting. Start by next week.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. SEND YOUR GREMLIN ASLEEP EXPERIMENT When Your Gremlin is awake and alert, it will step in more actively when you are about to leave Your Box, your comfort zone, your Survival Strategy by doing an experiment that is Expanding Your Box. Your Gremlin feels the most home in there because it has been protecting Your Box since you created it. Automatically if you start to leave Your Box, Your Gremlin will feel scared and be anxious. Feeding Your Gremlin the foods it likes will make it go to sleep afterwards. Go feed it on purpose. Then do an experiment you feel Fear to do. (You can feel safer while stepping outside Your Box when Your Gremlin is asleep.)

2. PHYSICAL BEEP! SHIFT! GO! EXPERIMENT Als long as you are alive, you embody a Physical Body. For Your Box and Your Gremlin it is more difficult to make you neglect Physical changes than a thought or a decision. This way, your Physical Body is an excellent Resource to create Change. If you consciously move your Physical Body, you change your position. The next thing to do: Link your physical change with changing your Point Of Origin. Your Point Of Origin is from where you speak, declare, ask, choose, move, and hesitate to move. Practice changing your Point Of Origin to get outside of Your Box. Do a Beep! Shift! GO! by standing up, turning around and sitting down. From your new Point Of Origin, GO!

3. USE YOUR RED CLOTH EXPERIMENT You don't need to be a target. You can choose to be the target by taking in everything that is coming towards you. Notice that it is you who takes in. No one else takes in for you. You are taking in. Or you don't. To not take in, use your Red Cloth. It is one of your 13 Tools on your energetic toolbelt. When being attacked for being different, or outside society's Box, hold your imaginary Red Cloth to the side and let the energy go right by you into the Red Cloth. This allows you to stay in Connection to the world in present in time. You do not need to take in any attacks at all. Use your Red Cloth with instinctive skill and the speed of an awaken Torero!

To deepen your research, please visite Red Cloth and make the experiments you find there!

4. ANSWERING NON-LINEAER EXPERIMENT When asked a question, respond by not answering the question and start talking about something else. Become a Conscious Asshole who has the power to Choose what you are saying whenever you want. You never ever have to answer a question of anybody. You choose what you are saying. Consciously use Your Gremlin to go sideways and Nonlinear instead of answering in linear ways. Stay in Connection to the person you are with and the space you are in. Create a new space with your nonlinear answers. Do this especially when you are asked "how are you?"!

5. DE-MANTRA-ISE YOURSELF EXPERIMENT Everytime you are saying words like "um" and "fine", your are about to put yourself into a sleep-mode or a mantra. Being in a mantra makes you being less Centered, less Present, less in your Authority and less connected to your Being. Also you invite people around you to go into 'sleep mode'. Enough of that now! Here is the exercise: Practice getting rid of words such as "fine" and "um" and "hmm" and throw them onto your energetical compost. They will compost there on their own. Invite others to join your experiment. If you hear them say "um", ask them if they have a compost. If not, ask them if they want to create themselves one and Start Over what they were about to say.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. DO BABY-STEP EXPERIMENTS EACH DAY We become so easily sucked in into the ordinary routines because we have been trained for that since years. A way to break out of that is to do litte nano-step Experiments each day for a whole year (or your whole life!). You Shift Identity into being an Experimenter as a side-effect. Do 3-5 baby-step Experiments each day and be conscious about that you are doing them. This constanty Builds Matrix in you and changes how you are engaging with the world and what is possible for you.

2. MAKING YOURSELF INTERESTING ENOUGH FOR ECCO Because we are so much part of the interconnected web of life, there are forces in universe which are ready to relate to us and support us on our Path. The Earth Coincidence Control Office (ECCO) is an intelligent force, coordinating the seemingly impossible to coordinate. Sometimes it puts you into exact right conversation or place you need to be for your next step. This Experiment is to ask ECCO what is needed from you to become interesting enough for ECCO to move you into a faboulus relationship Possibility. Go ahead and ask. Then do it.

3. BECOME AND LIVE A QUESTION AND THE ANSWER WILL COME Because 'knowing' an answer will kill the Question it might be, that your questions get quickly answered by your unconscious conclusions and illusions, producing the ordinary results that you are used to get. Consciously Choosing to be a Question which is Holding Space unanswered brings forth the power of your Your Quest-Ions which are charged forces beyond your imagination attracting the answers to your Question. So - for how long can you hold your Question unanswered right down at your belly next to your Center?

4. HOLDINGS EXPERIMENT Modern culture feeds the Intellectual and Physical Body most. The 3 other of the 5Bodies (Emotional, Energetic, Archetypal) stay low fed and therefore you experience an unmet need for Love. The practice of Holdings is an essential act of healing your neediness instead of trying to fill it with physical or intellectual food-replacements. Organise yourself with 2 other persons of the same sex three Holdings a week for the next three months and get rid of your neediness. A good start to become a source of Love.

5. FROM 3 TO 1 - FIND OUT YOUR CHARACTER Humans are Choosing their Identities consciously or unconsciously. This Experiment is to watch 3 Movies from the PM Recommended Film List noticing 3 characters that you identify with. Write down in your Beep! Book the qualities which these three characters have in common. Become the ONE character made out of the qualities you have written down and see how it feels.

6. BECOMEING ATTRACTIVE TO A PARTER EXPERIMENT If you are not creating, you are not in the flow of universe. Having your own conversation helps you not to be a victim of the conversation from others, because you already HAVE your own conversation.

This Experiment is to not stop talking about what you are creating. Instead, by lavishly talking about it, you create a gravity well which sucks people into the Gameworld of your Creation. You will attract people who are attracted by the same interests as you are. This is extraordinary circumstance for Negotiating Intimacy.

7. START A POSSIBILITY TEAM BEFORE NEXT WEEK EXPERIMENT Possibility Team is to discover, explore and practice implementing thousands of Thoughmaps, Distinctions and exercise skills that are NOT given in Expant the Box Trainings and Possibility Labs. Your PTeam is your fellow group of researchers working with you on the edge of nextculture - Archiarchy. Find yourself minimum 2 other Edgeworkers and meet in weekly meetings. One spaceholder at a time. 3hours of collaborative practice, feedback and coaching. Use Context Setting as your primary practice so that you are clear about what your purposes are.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. HOLD SPACE FROM THE LARGE EXPERIMENT Spaceholding is taking responsibility for the energetic level of a space. The first step for taking responsibility of a space is: You need to be aware of the energetic space. This means you need to be aware of being connected to it. Depending which space you are aware of being connected to you will hold a different space. When Holding space with group in a WorkTalk, a WorkShop or a Training, expand it to the bigger space of the world rather than the small space of your talk. By doing that, you implement one of the most important spaceholder-laws: The space determines what is possible. Find out what is possible.

2. PIRATE AGREEMENT FOR SUSTAINABLE CHANGE EXPERIMENT We have found that valuable sustainable changes truly happen by creatively collaborating in a consistent series of baby-step Emotional Healing Processes. You can do this! Make a pirate agreement with 3 or 4 other trainer type people. Ask for an Emotional Healing Process everytime when having an emotional Reactivity and shovel your way free into your Adulthood.

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1. YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP IS YOUR EXPERIMENT GROUND Go to the place in you that has the question: Should I stay or shoud I leave a relationship? In this place you are probably weighting out ideas, risks, Possibilties and plans about what happens to the relationship if you do this or that. This puts almost all Your Center and with that your Power into the future and onto your own and the other persons Survival Strategies. You are not Living Full Out!

This Experiment is to relate to the current relationship as an Experiment ground for the next relationship. Where you are right now is where you can do Experiments. Doing them allows us to take bigger risks next time in the next relationship. Why would you think that this relationship is the only one you will ever have if you do not live full out in it?

2. CUT LOOSE FOR MAKING INTIMACY POSSIBLE Relationships don't die in the lack of Love. There always is an abundance of Love. They die in the lack of Intimacy. Intimacy can be created in million ways. Making a meal togehter with eyes blind, having a conversation only with questions and no answers allowed, talking to each other from the unknown, revealing what you are consciously arrogant about, and so on and on and on!

This Experiment is to create a laboratory with your friends in order to do Become Experimenters. Reveal to them your flame to Create the Experiments that can make Intimacy possible. Inside of yourself you already have everything you need. The inventor, Pirate, Experimenter, Edgeworker, Advernturer, sourceress, someone who radically wants to evolve, is already there. This is you! Take a Risk. Cut loose!

Whenever you are with someone, Live Full Out for what you want to create together. Harvest all you can. When the Experiment-chamber you created explodes, learn how to be with it, move on and create the next one!
NOTE: Also do real-time reality-checkings with people around you about the Fantasy Worlds you are in about what is possible and what is not. Ask for Feedback. Let your Fantasy Worlds fall together and find out what stays. Create your next intimacy Experiment from there.

3. CHECK YOUR PURPOSE Everything has a purpose, either unconscious or conscious. This proposal is to do Experiments with conscious purpose. Look at your words and question the framework with wich you are Speaking. Are you trying to fit into a framework? Are you trying to fit everything into the Map of your Fantasy World by Navigating relationships spaces towards a certain goal or end that you want to accomplish? By that, you are NOT relating with reality.

The only way we have found so far to be in Reality is by Becoming Present. Only in presence you can Choose consciously. Choosing consciously elimintates the space in you for unconscious choices. Once you are present, consciously Choose to use the Map of Bright Principles as your framework from which you are speaking and creating. Make sure you are functioning in the framework of your Bright Principles and that your Bright Principles are in your heart and body, not just your mind.

NOTE: If you haven't destilled and chosen your Bright Principles reach out to Vera Franco for more Information (http://www.verafranco.org)

4. SHIFT IDENTITY Try Shifting Identity from one to another. Shrink your Now small enough to slip sideways through the Gap between identities. Notice how you can see both identities. The identity that 'I am not good enough' is one identity. The identity that 'I am the best' is another identity. Both are made up, crazy and both carry the risk of making yourself being alone, victimized or hero-ized. Is that what you want? After having your answer: Notice also the Space where you have no identity. Being in the Gap of Identities is groundless, because the nature of Reality is groundlessness.

Who are you if you have no identity? Identities help you to function in a certain way because they give you certain skills, knowledge, characteristics, language, behaviour etc. and still, they are made up and instable.

Yet, Choose an identity that functions in creating what really matters to you, because the identity 'I am not good enough / the best' might just be less practical for bringing your Visions, Quests and Achetypal Lineage down to Earth or create directly from the Gap.

5. MAKE IDENTITY SHIFTS IN OTHERS VISIBLE We Shift Identities multiple times a day, often as an unconscious use of our Survival Strategy. Sometimes it seemingly works best when I am the glad shiny girl or the curious boy or the intelligent student or the sexy lady / dude or the cool, bragging man / women or the helpess child or the 'I don't understand anything' or the 'I am so overwhelmed' or the 'I cannot do this' or the 'I already know everything' or or or. When you are with someone and they shift identities, show them the two identities that you saw them exhibiting. Ask them what is going on for them after you tell them?

This gives them and you a chance to Become Authentic with yourself and each other because Becoming Authentic about your inauthenticity is the first step of taking the masks off. It reveals your true Feelings, vulnerability and your inner messes. You open a Space of Possibility for Connection and Intimacy stepping out of the show(s).

6. CALL THE IDENTITY IN SOMEONE YOU WANT TO TALK TO

If someone approaches you with a certain identity that you clearly do not want to talk to, you have a choice to make. Either you accept their offer with silent acquisence, maybe disgrace, or you tell them who you want to speak to. Tell them: 'I don't want to speak to the self-doubting creature in you, I want to speak to your Warrior.' If they accept, you keep engaging. If not, you make an appointment with them for another lifetime speaking to the self-doubting creature. You have this power.

PS: If you don't see it, check out your identity.

7. PARTICIPATE IN THE EXCHANGE OF FEEDBACK

Seeing yourself without a mirror requires a lot of Clarity and always carries the potential of self-illusion. This is different if you get decent feedback. Feedback is your mirror for seeing yourself clearly. It is an essential tool for Building Matrix to be able to hold more Consciousness. Breathing has two directions of movement, so has the Evolution of Consciousness. In and Out. You can support your Evolution of Consciousness by inhaling and exhaling extra Clarity.

There is places and people who provide Clarity if you go and speak to them (inhaling). This Experiment is to ask other Edgeworkers for Feedback: 'What results am I creating? How can I bring different results? Please give me Clarity and Possibilitiy!'.

There is also people who are asking for your Clarity (exhaling). Giving them your Clarity sharpens your Clarity. Ask for Feedback again! You are participating in the Evolution of Consciousness.

8. EXPERIENTIAL REALITY Get 1 or 2 persons to do an Experiment. First you give them Clarity about what an identitiy is (a manufactured character you unconsciosly or consciously Choose). Then go to a mall or town for 2 to 3 hours. Sit and watch people. Alternating tell stories about their realities. Do this for many people. Look at people for who they are and who they aren't. Meaning, look for where their identity ends and there is free space left, space of nothing. This gives you access to the Possibility what people are not and widens the Gap to see their potentials. We built ourselves all these identities and there is acutally huge space of nothing inbetween that can be filled with all sorts of identities. Fill it for them and have fun doing this!

9. WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET IT?

People put their Center into their mind to be able to understand what is going on. This might be false safety in the Hidden Purpose of Control of relationship. Your mind is TOO SLOW to get relationship. Relating is an alive process, not a math sheet to be understood. Trying to understand it takes you out of the creative collaboration that relating naturally is. Put your energetic Center back onto your physical Center and let your Center think for you. Put your mind into the refrigerator or back into school where they can fix it, since they made you believe thinking is all that counts.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. BEEING HOOKED IS YOU HOOKING YOURSELF

Read the Parts-website and check if you can acknowledge having many many Parts. Each Part has a different agenda. The Parts themselves call their agenda a 'need', an 'urge', an 'addiction' or however you want to call it. Some of your Parts want to take you out of your agenda. They will try to hook you by having back and forth conversations in your mind all day long. The purpose is to eat up your energy.

If you keep Building Your Matrix by naming, healing, holding and distinguishing your Parts, eventually a Hook comes your way from the inside or outside and you notice that it is there before you are hooked. That's when you can decide to stay Centered and hold the Red Cloth up to the side and the Hook goes by or put the Red Cloth in front of you and it hits you impactfully, throwing you off Center.

2. WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS TO YOU

Sudden shocks or news can take you out of your presence. The way to put yourself back into the Present including the shock or the new thing is a Process called 'As Is-ing Process'. You will need another person who can hear and hold space for you. Go back to the moment right before the new circumstance started. From there let each of your 5 Bodies share was is happening for them in present tense 'as you go through what happened'. Speak from your Emotional, Physical, Intellectual, Energetic and Archetypal Body how they are impacted. This way you integrate the shock of the news and its energy can flow through your body. You are back to yourself in your presence.
Not sharing and integrating leaves a Gap and can cause confusion and the inability about how to handle certain situations.

3. CREATE YOURSELF A VOICE FREE INNER WORLD

Your inner voices occupy your space and eat up your energy if you let them. You have put a Zoo (of praise, blame, ideas, shoulds, must, etc.) into your mind by listening to your Parent Ego-State all day long. There is millions of other great Zoo-Keepers around you in the world. They all are pretending that this is real.

But have you ever been in the presence of no voices? In the silent space of the now and nothing? Have you even been in the voice free presence together with another human being? This is the real experience of a Free And Natural Adult Ego-State. Love is happening in a small NOW. No stories, no voices attached. The voices tell stories. Stories happen in time. Time is not in the small now. So you have to Choose between the story or the small Now. To make these stories go away, shoot them with your Voice Blaster. Shoot them visciously, voriciiously, verifiyably. Don't worry about that they might starve of hunger. There is plenty other Zoo-Keepers in the world that will take care of them - BANG!

4. WOMEN: CREATE TRANSFORMATIONAL ADVENTURE JOURNEYS WITH MEN Try to use this Clarity when you are about wanting to offer something to a man that you know he doesn't know how to get there and what to find there. First, be clear about what you are offering: Your offer is a Negotiation to a transformational Adventure journey created from your Magician, Pirate, Sourceress, Inventoress, Adventuress Witch.

Second: If you only have Connection with a man where he is, you are not gonna get anywhere with him. If you only connect with him from where you want to be with him, he will cluelessly stay standing at the next corner unable to follow you. It's time to use you Inner Resources For Connection - Third:

For invitations to a man to work out, you must have one foot where the man is and one foot where Possibility is. Like this you are with him and where you want to go in the same time.

Your are making an archetypal offer for him to come with you on the journey.

5. SOPT GIVING FEEDBACK AS PRAISING AND BLAMING

Praise and Blame are an impersonal expression of your Feelings and Emotions about something or someone. You are making it about them. This is part of the Manipulation game called Low Drama because you are hiding yourself while trying to shape the other person. What's your purpose? Why not making it personal?

Everytime we learn something, we change. If we do not change, we didn't learn anything. If you have something to praise or blame, you are obviously affected by it. But you are not transparent about what changes in you.

'Oh that was great, you explained it so well, gosh you are annyoing, you never understand, again you did it wrong.'

Share what you received from another person and cut out completely your praise and blame. Make it something that is real for you by Radically Relating to the other person. Actually share what you got from the other person, for example your next Question, your next Experiment or Practice or tell them what you want to do next by being inspired listening to them.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. STOP FILLING YOUR EMPTINESS - DO THE OPPOSITE

As we grow up from being handykapped, wounded creatures we develop an inner emptiness, a hole in ourselves, that is asking to be filled. This is your Child Ego-State speaking. Do you catch yourself trying to fill the hole with food or making your partner responsible for being the one that makes it go away?

We discovered that as we grow up we actually need that inner emptiness in the middle of our Adult Ego-State for being able to Create out of nothing! For the Child-Ego State it sounds totally threatening. For your Adult and Archetypal-Ego States the resource of Nothingness to create is essential. Have a conversation with the emptiness inside you so it doesn't need to be filled. Change your relationship to it and use at as an Inner Resource to create from.

2. LEAVE YOUR OBSOLETE GAMEWORLDS BEHIND

Create your own Gameworld outside of the Patriarchy rather than trying to change you old Gameworlds. They are exactly designed to function the way they are functioning. Changing them would be like trying to make a wheel out of a ladder. It costs you enormous effort and others would probably see this as a great opportunity to complain about what you are doing. You end up in a Low Drama with Gremlins fighting each other. We successfully fight the existing Gameworlds not by changing them but by creating new ones, that make the old ones obsolete. In fact, they are already obsolte. If you have Problems with your old Gameworlds, leave them behind. Create a new one. Gather 2-3 People to support each other in this process. Together read the Gameworld Theory website and help each other to not tangle up in your Low Dramas. Discover your own Potentials, your Inner Resources and the Infinite Resources, your Bright Principles, Your Teams, Your Quest, your Archetypal Lineage and maybe most important: Your next step! These are great forces ready to suppoort you on your Path.

3. HAVE A MOTHER GRADUATION CEREMONY

Believe it or not, being a Mother has an end. On the bright sides and on the dark sides. In case you mothered your children in modern culture, we tell you that if you want, this horror has an end. CAUTION: There will be a lot to grieve. AND there is a life after..

When your kids are young Adults and engage in Low Drama it is time to retrieve your real name, reconnect with Gaia and find your next transformative magician warrioress queen goddesses purpose! Go have a Mother Graduation Ceremony (see the website) with a circle of your friends witnessing your Graduation and signing your Graduation Certificate. The time when you had leverage to give your children what they need has passed since 5-10 years ago. If you continue to play the role of 'Mother' of your children after their 18th Birthday, you undermine their ability to face their inintiations on their own.

Now it is your time to move on and let these young Adults do their thing. You can put yourself into a new Point Of Origin (something different than being a Mother) by Changing Your Mind, Declaring and Choosing to participate in ongoing initiations into nextculture - Archiarchy.

4. EXIT YOUR OWN ORDINARY MECHANICS

Take your Beep! Book and write down some of the 122 Ways to create ordinary relationship that are familiar to you.

Ordinary relationship contains creating Low Drama. Extraordinary relationships are created out of High Drama.

Writing down your ordinary mechanics opens either a doorway to an Emotional Healing Process (EHP) or ways to transform yourself from Ordinary To Extraordinary doing an Experiment. You might feel something while you write down your ways of being ordinary. Put a *sign behind 3 of the mechanics which intensely make you feel mad, sad, scared or a mix of these emotions. Each one is one EHP. Doing them is already extraordinary.

Additionaly you experiment with Change Your Mind. Your mind = Your mechanics. You can Change Your Mind about anything because it is yours. Or isn't it? Say: 'This is who I have been..., and I change my mind. I am...'

Do 4 to 5 Practices including the EHPs and share them with your discoveries in the Possibility Creation Village Telegram Group.

5. CHOOSE IN WHICH CULTURE TO LIVE IN

If you have gotten so far to listen through the previous podcasts and are reading this Experiment, you are interested in radical stuff! This involves making radical choices: By now you know about the choice between surviving in Partriarchy or living in Archiarchy.

Trying to do both causes huge pain. You need a lot of energy to neglect this pain if you want to endure it without changing anything. Actually you are just back in Patriarchy with a high Numbnessbar neglecting your Feelings and Emotions. One of the patriarchal symptoms is, people are spending their time and energy for something they do not like to do but convince themselves of having to do it because they convince thyselves that this is the only way possible. Therefore, for most people their Survival Strategy seems like life because they haven't been educated differently.
We say, survival is survival. Living is living. They are distinct and if you are doing something out of survival, you are not living. The assumption is, that if you are working in a corporate company, this is a result of your Survival Strategy because if you are giving away your Power to someone in a Hierarchy, you are paying the very expensive price of giving your Authority away. And why would you do that exept out of unconscious survival?

Do the Emotional Healing Process (EHP) about how you made it for youself to give your Authority away in regard of your own survival. Then quit your coroporate Job and Hold Space for EHPs for money.

6. BUILD UP YOUR NEXTCULTURE SHAMANISM ANGER SKILLS Navigate your inner anger and provide sessions for other people. Doing this is part of nextculture - Archiarchy. In Archiarchy we give away navigation skills, Clarity and Space Holding as one way to share the Infinite Resources we have access to. We use them for grounding the foundation of our culture into the immaterial world. Navigating your anger makes you hold space for certain Bright Principles. For example Clarity, Integrity and Authenticity are three Bright Principles that are nourished by anger. Navigating your anger makes space for these Bright Principles. For immaterial stuff different rules apply than for material stuff.

They become more the more you give them away. Helping others to heal themselves by skilling them up with their Conscious Anger is nextculture shamanism - instead of keeping it for yourself. Helping someone to reconnect to their Conscious Anger provides them a huge resource for their Clarity. Every person you skill up with their anger, is bigger Clarity in the world. Now they can share it and so on and so on. Fantastic stuff!

Give away what you already know and learned. Use your Feelings to take Radical Responsibility.

7. GIVE YOURSELF A DAY BEING SOBER ON LOW DRAMA Once a week take a 24h day and forbid yourself to go to victim and hence Low Drama. See if you can be with Your Gremlin at your side and stay grounded. Figure out a way to do it. To help make this work out, find High Drama while you are doing this.
NOTE: Don't beat yourself up if you find yourself in Low Drama. Just say: 'Oops, stop Gremlin! Go drink water and breathe air. I am going back to High Drama.'

8. MAKE YOURSELF SEEN IN HIGH DRAMA Take Radical Responsibility for what you want. Make yourself seen. Go to a town meeting of your town and start speaking about what you want for your town.

'I want our main street to be depaved, I want our town being a town for the people instead of the cars'. Be seen and see what happens. This is High Drama.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. PUT THE POOP ON THE TABLE! - IN A TEAM When listening to 122 ways of creating Ordinary relationships, find something that you can relate to, make a note about it in your Beep! Book. During the week get together with 2 or 3 other people and create Experiments you can try in order to replace the behavior that creates Ordinary relationship. This is not necessarily a pleasant journey. It's putting your Poop On The Table!. You are figuring out what you don't know that you don't know about. What is hidden is put into the open. Use your Fear and Sadness to look at the things that have been invisible.

Most of what you will find are your protections against Intimacy. This is due to most people are identified with their defense strategy. If you stay naive (in Denial, Fantasy Worlds, Lying, Prejudices and Reasons) to these behaviors, these patterns will continue running in your life.

If you figure out the way you prisoned yourself in, you can unprison yourself. The way out is the way in. And if the purpose of the universe is the Evolution of Consciousness, we have work to do. It is the death and resurrection show ongoingly because change doesn't happen through understanding. Change doesn't happen in the mind. It happens trough Transformation in your 5 Bodies.

2. USE YOUR FRIENDS HELP FINDING WAYS TO SHIFT Trying the same ways over and over again is optional and only indirectly contributing to the Evolution of Consciousness on planet Earth. Whenever something doesn't work out, we call that a Beep!. You get it as a form of feedback from the Universe. It's valuable feedback saying 'This did not work.'

Feedback is valuable information for you to use. If you are trying the same way again, you are ignoring the feedback. OR your purpose is to get the same Beep!s FOREVER. Some people dedicate their life to the endless repetition of Beep!s as a way of Revenge. If this is you - read more about the purpose of Revenge using this LINK.

In this Experiment, we are about to take another door: If doing the same way again is optional, then doing it different is optional too. This new option is called doing a 'SHIFT'. And actually doing the new way rather than just preparing for it is called 'SHIFT & GO!'

When you hit the wall again about something, you smash your head for the Xth time in a relationship, a plan for your life, an application, a move to make, call up 2 of your people and ask for help to SHIFT to another way to be. Ask them to Hold Space for you and come up with new options, new Possibility to try.

You do not need to know how the SHIFT works. It's different from your behaviour before. This is all you need. No understanding, no calculation, no assumptions, no false-security nessecary. Do it and see how it goes. You receive valuable and especialle NEW information, because you have tried a new. Use this new information to either keep going if it works or find new ways to SHIFT again if you get a Beep!. It is that simple - not easy - simple!
NOTE: If you end up in 'I am doing it wrong everytime, I will do it even wronger next time, I will never learn how to do it right', you are in the swamp. The swamp is a Survival Strategy place in you. You probably built to knock yourself out because it was safe there. No one bothered with you anymore and you didn't have to risk anything again. Fine, and being there drains your energy. The SHIFT is to GO! back from swamp-mode into SHIFT-mode, ask your friends what to do differently and GO! again.

3. PUT YOUR POWER INTO A SMALL NOW INSTEAD OF EVERYWHERE ELSE Freaking out and panicking before a talk in the next days means you have put your Center into the future. You are producing your own stage-fright. Having your Center in the future takes puts your Power away from the now. You can shift into having your energetical Center at your physical Center in a Minimized Now. From there, you can ask your Fear 'Hello Fear, what do you have for me?'. Your Fear will have answers: 'Write down these three Distinctions for opening the space of your talk.' You write them down. Ask your Fear again: 'Anything else?'. If not, you are done, you have your preparation for the talk. Keep your Center in the Minimized Now and see how the stage-fright is only in the future. You have your preparation. By living Radical Reliance onto your own preparation, you are not the stage-fright.

4. BECOME AN ASSUMPTION SHERLOCK HOLMES - TALK TO WATSON Anyone can assume anything about anything. If you assume your Assumption is true it will turn into an Expectation. Even the smallest Expectations will most probably turn into Resentments, because they are so likely to be not met. The other person would have to accidentaly get your exact Expectation out of millions of options. The chance that this happens is high, and already having 1% Resentment will kill intimacy because you hold secret disgrace against the other person. Not knowing this can create crucial results, because you might unconsciously prevent the intimacy, that you are longing for. Putting your Assumptions on the table and is how you get out of this fraud. Take away your silent secret of believing in your Assumptions. Check them out together with the other person. This is how you can let go of your Assumptions and Expectations.

5. PRACTICE CULTURAL RELATIVITY AS A SKILL OF KEEPING YOUR CENTER Connect with other people/cultures without giving your Center away. Be amazed with their culture. Use it as form of entertainment. Ask Questions from amazement and curiosity rather than trying to change someone. Find out about their culture. 'What is it like for you, how do you handle this.....what do you do with your Feelings?' Possibility Management is not the solution or the only way to live. Free up your energy with other things and thoughts. Make yourself be inspired from what you learn from other people's culture because no culture is true or false. They are just Gameworlds with their own set of rules, distinctions, levels of responsibility, traditions, etc. ..

Curiosity is your transformational agent.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. CHOOSE OPTIONS THAT ARE NOT OFFERED IN MODERN CULTURE Patriarchy is not the only way of living. How have you given away your personal ability of Choosing and live a wider variety of alternatives than are offered on the menue of western culture / Patriarchy?

To get your Power back, for this week, choose as many attitudes and actions that are not offered in modern culture. Write them down and do them with your friends. There is thousands of Possibilities. These can be very subtle things. Shake hands differently each day for a week. Start eating before the men sit and start eating. Offer the person in front of you in the queue to read them a Poem out loud. Choose to love your Partner more that anything. More than your most expensive objects. And so on and on and on.

Send what you wrote down to Clinton Callahan - clinton (at) nextculture.org

2. TAKE EACH OTHER THROUGH PROCESSES OF RECLAIMING POWER How do you reclaim the power to choose from all options possible instead of choosing from the limited options that are presented to you from the outside? The Golden Key is to find out how you are specifically pretending that you do not have the power of Choosing.

Your power of Choosing what you do or don't do is inalienable.

If you are not using this power this is because you are pretending to not have this power. Take each other through the Emotional Healing Processes about what is blocking yourself from accessing your Power and how you deny the inalienable forces you carry inside of yourself.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. STOP YOUR SELF-CRITICISM FOR A WEEK Make an agreement with yourself for this week. No criticising yourself at all for a whole week. There is actually nothing that matters enough that you would have a reason to self criticise you. Since you dropped out of school and moved out from your parents, there might be no one who cares about your failures anymore. If there is, is it your Problem?

Every time you want to judge yourself, Cause Adventure instead. Micro, Semi, Minor, Major, doesn't matter. Adventure is Adventure. You use the energy you have in abundance from not criticising yourself anymore.
NOTE: Don't beat yourself up if you cannot come up with an Adventure. Pick the Adventure how to create Adventures. Who is supposed to know how something you have never done before is done? No one.

2. BE THE ONE WHO CHALLENGES PEOPLE TO CREATE You are a genius and masterpiece already. Otherwise you wouldn't be here banging the big drum of life. Correct?
But, this doesn't mean the world turns around you. Your turn with it. You contribute like everyone and everything else. If you have a Question or something that you feel or think is needed in the world, go challenge someone to Create that thing in relation to your challenge.
You have the question, someone else might have the skills. They might invent a Book, a film, a machine, a Process, a Training (Rage Club, Rage Club Spaceholder, Fear Club, Fear Club Spaceholder, Village Weavers, Intimacy Journeyers, Possibility Mediation, Possibility Coaching, ETB, Evolutionary) an Article, a Gameworld, a Team, a Group, Archiarchal Music, a Website, a gathering or provide a new Distinction. By challenging you create neccessity in the other person to create what is needed to be created.

GO!

3. BE PREDICTABLE FOR 3 DAYS IN A ROW For the next 3 days on Purpose only make linear offers to your partner and your friends. Usually the purpose to do this is to be nice, friendly, undangerous, safe and to create some sort of vanilla flavour. Only choose what is already known, say things that you have said in the past, make invitations that you have already made before, welcome your partner the same way each day, say the same things everynight before you go to bed. Be predictable. This is living an Ordinary life in extreme and sharpens your view for the Ordinary that you have so far kept well secret out of your own awareness.

4. CHOOSE FROM OPTIONS THAT ARE NOT ON THE MENUE

Your Job is to do every little Experiment you can do. Evolution of Consciousness does not happen by a big waking up of humankind. Every little step you do in changing yourself changes the human morphogenetic field. Whenever you go sideways trying a new track, a new way, you put a hole into the wall that someone else will find and be able to go through. Go and make holes by Choosing options that are not on the menue of (your own) Standad Human Intelligence Thoughtware that is promoted by modern culture. Living an Extraordinary life in Archiarchy is the ongoing collaborative creation in each moment between adult initiated women and adult initiated men. Go Nonlinear and you have a whole Life Of Practice ahead.

5. SELF OBSERVATION Carefully observe the bars of your patriarchal prison until they go fuzzy and melt down. The laws to see something a certain way melt down.

This reveals that patriarchal distortions are imaginary. You don't see that until you observe it. By scrutinising the Patriarchy it unfolds clarity in you that consciously subverts the patriarchy.

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EXPERIMENTS:

0. LEARN TO DO SELF OBSERVATION WITHOUT MASOCHISM

Self Observation usually equals criticism, which equals masochism. This is not what we are promoting. There is already enough masochism in the world.

Instead, learn to do Self Observation with neutrality. Move your attention outside yourself and say ( 'O' ) whenever you notice something. The( 'O' ) is a space like the number 'zero' with a Nothingness in it. All the stories you have about criticising, belittling and punishing yourself dissolve in there. Notice all the dimensions of the reasons, causes, Triggers and the benefits for Your Gremlin with the simply neutral ( 'O' )..

The( 'O' ) is not an 'oh my gosh' or an 'oha'. It is simply the space of

( 'O' ).

1. SELF OBSERVATION WORK OF PATRIARCHAL MEMES IS AHEAD OF US Look at what you are looking with by building a data-bank of Self Observation. This means, start to observe yourself in what you are thinking, saying and doing. Observe the Thoughtware you are thinking with. It does not matter if what you observe is completely contradictory to each other. You are not one. You are Many. You are a Zoo of Parts.

Self-observe the Parts of Patriarchy in yourself as one of your data-bank slots. Where are you using patriarchal Thoughtware? You think in the categories of right and wrong, good and bad ? Have you shut down your intuition and numbed your Feelings? Do you think there is scarcity in love and you have to compete with others about getting enough love? Do you wake up in the morning and count your enemies? Who are you arguing with in your head blaming them from them moment you wake up?

We call patriarchal elements of thinking patriarchal Memetic Viruses or patriarchal Memes. Memes are the core instructions of your Thoughtware. You have put all sorts patriarchal Memes in yourself probably out of your Survival Strategy so to be able to survive in Patriarchy. You are not your Meme. You are not the Patriarchy. But to exit the Patriarchy, first you need to find the patriarchal Memes in yourself.

Use your Self Observation to track patriarchal Memes and write them down in your Beep! Book. Give them a name. This gives you the Power to Disidentify from these Memetic Viruses and loosen their Grip on you.

2. SUBVERT YOUR PATRIARCHAL MEMES If you are born into a worldview beyond which you parents cannot see, how can you? Well, you have have found a way out and made the effort to become an Edgeworker. You are liberating yourself from the restraints of your old worldviews and put yourself into an ongoing state of not having the numbing comfort of falling asleep. At the edge, you cannot fall asleep, otherwise you are not at the edge anymore. Here is next wake up Experiment: In everyday life, whenever you catch a patriarchal Meme in yourself say: 'This is a patriarchal Idea. I am not the Patriarchy.' Then Choose to do something different than the patriarchal Meme summons you to do.

3. USE PATRIARCHAL MEMES AS DOORWAYS Organise yourself multiple Emotional Healing Processes to exit the patriarchal Memes you wrote down step by step. Using your Self Observation to learn what you have been unconsciously thinking with is part of researching your Underworld. If you were born and raised in the Patriarchy, you have been suckling in the patriarchal Memes with your mothers milk. Questioning how they are implemented into your Underworld expands your awareness, which is the Key to exit the Patriarchy.

This is not a painfree process because you might get new and authentic answers from within yourself about who you are. This might be what you were missing while being born and raised in patriarchal modern culture.

Start each EHP with completely neutrally self observing your patriarchal Meme. Declare that it is irrelevant if what you observe is pleasant or not. No judgements. Eventually, when you are looking with enough awareness and clarity, the patriarchal Meme will start to dissolve and you will feel the Emotions about having spend your life inside of this prison while abandoning Your Beings Integrity.

Use your skill to Consciously Feel from your Adult Ego-State. Using this skill, you are not a victim of your Emotions and your Feelings anymore. Flow with them. You are receiving their neutral Energy and Information for you to be used for your Healing and for the Creation you are destined to Create.

4. PUT YOUR PARENTS BEHIND YOU AND START LIVING YOUR LIFE Go back to them moment when you have put your parents in front of you. Acknowledge that they brought you here on planet Earth and you lived in some respect following their orientation or the orientation they were oriented towards. This is a nature of being a child and a totally appropriate and noble decision for being able to survive. In your ancestral line you are the next person after your parents. Imagine having your parents ongoingly in front of you for your orientation beyond your childhood. You are oriented towards them for all your life. Being orientated towards them is changeable. Changing this is nessecary if you decide to live as an adult initiated women or man in Adulthood.

The way to change this is by Changing You Mind about who you are and who your parents are and where they are.

Say thank you to them and put your parents behind you. For each one remember at least one thing you can truly admire and respect and then you can put that parent behind you, with everything else you have taken with you until now.

Like this you are free from your parents forever. If someone asks you about your parents, tell them the story of your admiration.
5. USE YOUR CONSCIOUS ANGER TO CHANGE YOUR SHAPE OF BEING Do high intensity Anger in order to keep your Center and your Space and not give it away. Make boundaries, get Space back. This changes the shape of Your Being.

There is multiple Rage Clubs online and offline happening in the world. Rage Clubs are extremely safe and extraordinary spaces for you to reconnect with the archetypal force of your Anger and held spaces for you to learn how to use its energy and information for being able to take care of yourself and Create.

Check out the online Possbility Management Events TeamUp-calendar HERE or the Possibility Management Global Events Telegram Group HERE.

6. BRING FORTH WHAT IS WITHIN YOU SO YOU ARE NOT EATEN UP Express your Feelings and Emotions with one or two other people 2 or 3 times a week. Remove an Energetic Block, connect with something you gave away to survive, make a new decision. It makes a difference when someone can Hold Space and witness your Feelings. Being in Your Team while doing these little Completions will add an catalytic element to your Transformation. It will look like baby-steps or nano-steps but having two people Being With you will move you forward because your Emotions are completed layer after layer. If you keep feeling them just for yourself, you go in circles, because they stay uncompleted.

Said in a more radical way: If you bring forth what is within you, it will save you. If you don't, it will destroy you.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. REVIEW YOUR INTEGRITY ABOUT YOUR NAME If you ask people to call you by another name besides the name on your passport, this is a sign of incongruency. There is some energetical conflict in you to be looked at. Maybe Your Gremlin is putting a show on about who you pretend to be, but you are not. Maybe you are scared of acutally Choosing to Become Authentic and to Take A Stand for who you are! Maybe you are using the other name to make up a Fantasy World so you can think you are not affected by the identity and the stories of your pevious name. That all would be ways of living in Denial of who you are. Create Integrity and check out what is really going on behind your new name.

2. CAN YOU AFFORD A LIFE BELOW YOUR NUMBNESS BAR? Have the courage to get below your Numbness Bar this week and feel the pain below, especially Anger, Fear and Sadness. The pain is transformational fire. Feel your pain around the Patriarchy etc. Don't be a victim of your pain. Your are going below your Numbness Bar out of Clarity, not out of victimhood. Feel it and then use the pain for Evolution. Do the EHP's so you can hold your Sword Of Clarity. Doing your EHP's will give you Clarity that you use in Holding Space for others.

3. MEN Arrange for 15 Women to give a group of you feedback about how the Patriarchy affects Women. Make this space go on for one hour. Break open as the Women go on speaking from their fiercful broken hearts, desirering to be equally met on eyelevel and on heartlevel. Listen to them. Listen to their Anger, their Fear, their Sadness, their Sorrow, their Grief, their Rage, their Forgiveness, their brokenness and their Love. Stand in what you are hearing. Keep breathing while you are supported to face into Reality. Your Job is to receive and let things burn. Just listen......

4. BECOME A FEELINGS WORK COACH Become a person who Holds Space for others as a coach for Feelings Work. Help people Unmix Emotions, do EHP's, and then become free of corporate jobs. Walk with your vagera Sword of Clarity as a Transformational Agency and get paid for that.

5. Women: Say what you want in relationships. Don't pander to Patriarchy.
6. SHIFT CONVERSATIONS WITH YOUR QUESTIONS Get better about creating shifts in a conversation which sometimes can happen through questioning. Go Nonlinear. Stay in Connection with Clarity if the other person gets Hooked and tries to defend themselves with their Gremlin.

Out of your Research, Create yourself a List 10-15 questions that have proven power to work for shifting conversations. Use them!
7. LOW DRAMA IS CREATED BY MYSELF Every time I end up in Low Drama, it means I wanted Low Drama. I ask myself what Part of me wanted this? Especially if I make sarcastic comments. Get to know your Parts. Look at this website: Set Context and learn how to shift from Ordinary to Extraordinary conversations.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. CREATE NON-MATERIAL VALUE Trust yourself to record your WorkTalks and Workshops. Download your Bright Principles and Possibilities so others can benefit. Share your recordings on your Website and in the Possibility Creation Village Group. This is your participation in the Transformation from a world of material value to Non-Material Value. Sourcing and creating Non-Material Value is a core element to shift from modern Culture - Patriarchy to Next Culture - Archiarchy.

2. Harry And Samantha: Harry and Samantha conversations are Clinton's favorite and can be accessed on HERE.
3. TRAIN YOUR SPECIFIC APPLICATION OF RADICAL KNOWLEDGE Read the S.P.A.R.K.s one at a time and do the Experiments. Some of them need to be done in a Team. All of them can be done in a Team. Doing them in a Team multiplies your experiences in learning and skillbuilding to Become Present while you are experimenting. You learn from what other people learn about. Share your discoveries with your Team and other Possibility Managers.

Listen to the conversations about specific S.P.A.R.K.s HERE.
4. UNSPLIT YOUR ATTENTION Practice focusing on the conversation at hand. Avoid eating, drinking or doing other tasks. This splits Your Attention between the conversation and the other thing you are doing.

Raising your attentiveness is an exercise to stay Centered, Bubbled, Grounded and using your Conscious Fear to be in Connection. It is a practice of Being With the other Person at hand and of Becoming Present with your Conscious Anger having your Sword Of Clarity to Become Committed to the present conversation and to Hold Space for the Possibility of Intimacy. Why would you be chewing on a donut?
5. DISTINGUISH YOUR WEAPONS AGAINST THE OPPOSITE SEX Men and Women: Figure out what your weapons towards the opposite sex are, and put them down when interacting with others. This is called 'putting your Weapons On The Table'.

Talk about what it is to be a Next Culture Woman and or a Next Culture Man. Than have a Women's Circle or Men's Circle to talk further. Ask yourself: What do I do to the other...? Which of the Shadow Principles of Revenge, Lying, Denial, Manipulation, Reasoning, Justification, Competition, Hidden Competing Commitments am I living? How am I contributing to create Insanity as a Women or a Man?
6. MEN AND WOMEN, HAVE A TRUCE In Your Team(s) you have the opportunity to consciously join into an agreement. If you want to apologize and join hands, gather together as Men and Women and acknowledge with one another where we fail each other. Then agree to learn how to make amends in ways that benefit each other so we can work together.

The big price to pay is you don't get to be a victim, or feel oppressed, or blame the other sex anymore. The price is you get to put the weapons down and to have no Gremlin feeding anymore. The game is over! It' time for StartOver!
7. FIRE YOUR PARTNER Tell your partner: 'You are fired! You no longer have the job of being a prison guard, parent, rescuer, etc. I refuse this position for you. The job is gone or re-organized!'

You are Person Of Agency going exiting the 8 Prisons. Make enough time and talk with your partner about how to re-organize.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. BE SOMEONE ELSE THAN YOUR NORMAL STORY OF YOURSELF Practice Shifting Your Identity. Your identity is your self story about who you are in a space. Who are you in this space?

Change your Point Of Origin from your current self image. Identify yourself as a Game-World Builder, Intimacy Navigator, Experimenter, Possibilitator, Riftwalker, Edgeworker, Mage, or???

Decide who you want to be outside of the package you normally are with different people. Who are you outside of your Box? Drop your old stories and orient yourself anew from an interesting Point Of Origin.

2. CLOSE THE DOORWAY OF MANIPULATION - OPEN NEW DOORWAYS Instead of changing people through Manipulation, put Your Gremlin on a leash and open Doorways for others to walk through from the Point Of Origin of your own Adult Ego-State.

Hold Space for them and open 3 Doorways to go through. If they don't go through one, then say 'thank you very much' and leave.

3. SELF OBSERVE YOUR EGO STATES AND CHOOSE THEM CONSCIOUSLY There is a Difference between your Child Ego-State and Your Gremlin Ego-State: Child Ego-State is the victim, is not OK to have a voice and needs a voice to be seen. Gremlin Ego-State serves Shadow Principles, such as attacking, arguing, Lying, Manipulation, Justification, etc.

You must tell Your Gremlin to sit, otherwise you are not in the drivers seat. Only then you can Become Authentic with your old decisions. Having Clarity creates Possibility. Use your Self-Observation to create Clarity for new Possibilities: How does my behavior manifest. Start by noticing it. Then catch it after you do the behavior, eventually catch it before it happenes. Determine which Ego-State it belongs in. For each Ego-State except the Adult, you make a distinct space outside of your Bubble. Use your Conscious Anger for your intention to move the energy and behaviour back into the Ego-State it belongs. And do an EHP.

The conscious use of Gremlin is to tell your Gremlin to stay or sit, and when to say to someone 'this conversation is over'. Your Gremlin has the ability to interrupt. Either you make it serving your Bright Principles or you don't. If not, Your Gremlin will serve your Shadow Principles.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. PLANT YOUR POINT OF ORIGIN IN A NEW CONTEXT Each of us has a signal source, which is a reference point where we are at in life. You are emanating from this Point Of Origin. Everything you do, feel, think, speak and Choose comes from there. If not inspected, it's usually an old Context with an old Point Of Origin. In the last years you probably have gone through several initiatory processes into Adultood. Click the training you went through the last years into your current space. Since the beginning of your Path you have grown and now you have new options to plant your Point Of Origin.

Look and see which old Context your Point Of Origin is in, and transplant it into the new Context. It could go from an ordinary to an extraordinary Context.

NOTE: Notice your interactions with others. If your are holding Resentments, you cannot be in an extraordinary space. Check your Resentments, do the Emotional Healing Processes to Unmix Your Emotions. This is nessecary to step out of your Resentments.

2. CHANGE YOUR DEFAULT ANGRY-NESS Being Adaptive is one core Survival Strategy to hold back your Anger. To get out of that, spend 30 days expressing Anger whenever it comes up, regardless of how much Gremlin is included. Tell people in your community what you are experimenting with. Adapt to nothing and withhold nothing. You will have a changed relationship with your Anger. Then become an agent for the next Experiment = Become An Experimenter.

3. Follow moral rage back to Point Of Origin. See if you have been Adaptive for a long time. What potentials are being blocked by following herd behavior? Put it on the table with others by taking Radical Responsibility for it. Just by bringing it up you Build Matrix, regardless of what changes.

4. CHANGE PAST LIFE DECISIONS THAT ARE DIRECTING YOUR LIFE Do a Past Live Cellular Memory Process to see where old Decisions came from. Some Decisions and stories were made in past lives, and brought into this life to continue working on. Until you go back and disband their power from the past, they will have power over your life in the Present.

Some people who do these processes are Patricio Diaz, Sophia-Magdalena, Christina Dürschner, Scott East, Julia Neumann, Anne-Chloé Destremeau, Clinton Callahan, Vera Franco and many more Possibility Managers.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. CREATE SPACES OF RADICAL HONESTY USING YOUR FEAR

Ask the following questions several times this week to different people

a. What is blocking me from loving others?

b. What is blocking me from loving you?

Then use your Fear to Negotiate what could make it possible to be in Connection with you.

2. RECOMMENDED READS AND LISTENS

a. On U-Tube listen to 'Why Man Creates' (24min long)

b. Recommended Books to read:

• Martín Prechtel's 'Secrets of the Talking Jaguar' and 'Long Life Honey In The Heart'
• Malidoma Patrice Some's 'Of Water And The Spirit'.

3. BEING YOURSELF Call two people up and ask the following question as an Intiatory Process - 'How am I doing being myself?'

4. GAMEWORLD CHANGER - DO THIS FOR A PROJECT OR IN AN ORGANISATION

a. Hold a group space for boys 18 and under. Support them and have a conversation about asking dangerous questions, navigating Patriarchy, living outside the Box, and about School. Create a mindcraft game with them to Create a Village.

b. Hold a group for the parents of these boys to support them to talk to their sons about their Feelings and perspectives.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. SELF OBSERVATION AND NOTICING Take a Part of Your Attention and put it outside yourself to simply notice what you are doing and saying. This Builds Matrix. Building Matrix lets you hold more Consciousness. To be more conscious is a core element of being able to take more responsibility and becoming capable to create what YOU want to create. If you are more conscious and responsible, then WE get to be more Present and Conscious with how we are spending time because you start to Hold Space with Noticing and Your Attention. Avoid judging yourself.

2. BE AT SOURCE FOR YOUR TEAM Hold Space for a Possibility Team and use the SPARKs for Experiments, or hold a WorkTalk about something that interests you. Invite people to join in. This way you build you start to play a new game. The Game of Creation instead of Scarcity. A team that is is not already there is yet to be created by you. You want to be on a Team? GO!
3. WHATEVER YOU DO SHAPES YOU INTO WHO YOU ARE Throw yourself into a new shape by learning a new skill, Becoming Committed to something without knowing how, or by making a new Choice.

This allows you to Shift Identity and create new results that before you might have thought are not possible. They become possible by you having taken a new shape. The Universe now has freedom to make use of you differently. You are the one making yourself! Who are you becoming next?

4. ABRAKADABRA - I CREATE AS I SPEAKE Make this Declaration - "I (speak your name), take a stand for doing the next step of my Initiatory Process for authentic Adulthood and taking Radical Responsibility.' - Then name it, Go! and do it!

5. RESENTMENT IMMEDIATELY KILLS INTIMACY Making any Assumption (even a tiny one) about anything is the first step for having Resentments - The moment you assume, your Assumption almost secretly turns into an Expectation because you might live with this unconscious Belief that your Assumptions are true. Voilá - you have evolved towards having an Expectation. Having an Expectation then leads you towards having Resentment, because your Expectations cannot ever be fully met. Who is supposed to read them from your heart? - Your Partner? If so: Aha! How is your Partnership going?

An unfulfilled Expectation turns into Resentment because it cannot be met - voilá again - you have evolved. Now, with the Resentment, Your Gremlin has every right to block Intimacy from the person you have the Resentment with. This is fooling yourself and paying a high price.

Re-Establish your Intimacy and say this sentence once a day everyday for a month or a year: 'I withdraw the expectation that (say your expectations for a person or situation), forever!'

Expectations are Gremlin food.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. THE WORS ANSWER YOU MIGHT GET IS EITHER NO OR YES In A Small Now there is no Space and no Time for anything else than 'right now'. Stories happen in time. The Belief of 'I will not get what I want' is a Story. Stories are not now! Stories happen in time. Having a want is 'right now' , without a story. Drop your Stories:

Ask for what you want, even when you think its impossible. It's only stories.
2. WHO DECIDES WHETER YOU ARE PART OF SOMETHING OR NOT? Consider yourselves invited to, and included in, EVERYTHING (avoid feeling excluded to anything).
3. CHILDHOOD WOUNDS OFTEN HAPPEN WITH LACK OF CONNECTION - CREATE YOURSELF HEALING IN CONNECTION Create a team of people who want to Connect with each other for Emotional Healing Processes.
 

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1. YOU FIND ECSTASY IN ALL YOUR BODIES Grant yourself permission to have short term ecstasy or Joy in any of the Five Bodies. This helps us enter Extraordinary worlds. An Extraordinary world is any situation, in which you go off track from the Ordinary standard normal conversation or action that you have done already outnumerous times before. You create out of a Minimized Now, you are Present, you Decide and Choose which offers of Intimacy you make and accept. The short term ecstasy of your body gives you the spark for your next move.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. SELF OBSERVATIONS UNFOLD YOUR CREATIVE POTENTIALS Self Observe and make note of the types of conversations you start. What are you Speaking? After one week, see what kinds of conversations you start and the limits they contain. Practice starting other kinds of conversations that you have never started before….these conversations have no barriers. Notice the barriers up when talking to specific people. What's the cause for your barrier? - Is it unconscious Fear of Connection?

Only you can melt down your barriers, and unravel your creative Potentials hidden behind them.

2. BECOME AUTHENTIC BY LEARNING ABOUT YOUR INAUTHENTICITY Get into a group of 3. One coach and one person speaking authentically to a third person. The third person tell the speaker what you noticed about how authentic they were when speaking. (i.e.: 'I see your foot moving, or suppressing your breath, and you aren’t saying why your foot is moving or why you are suppressing your breath.').

Coach, you coach the third person giving feedback so that they have a chance to improve their feedback in Clarity and Being With the other person.

Do 4 minutes per round with 2 minutes speaking and 2 minutes feedback in each round. Two rounds per person, then shift to the next constellation.

3. SHIFT YOUR SHAPE FOR CONSCIOUS INTERACTIONS Ask yourself what your conscious intention is, what are the subtleties behind an action that might be unconscious….even something like shaking a hand. Building Matrix by becoming aware of your own unconscious intentions changes the shape of Your Being. Start practicing not Reacting to unconscious conversations anymore. Now you are open to other types of Conversations. Open up door after door to other dimensions, in ways we can Be Present together.

4. ATTENTION-SPLIT Practice splitting Your Attention so you are paying Attention to Your Attention (Self Observation). See whose behavior it is or whose voices are talking. Is it your Adult, Gremlin, Child, Parent?
NOTE: Make Judgemental-free notes in your Beep! Book. Self Observation is NOT for Gremlin Self Cannibalism.

5. CONQUERING UNKNOWN DOMAINS OF YOURSELF Become aware of your conscious Purpose and intention, and then be silent to see what happens. Choose a different option to interact with and see what changes. Stop playing out a role. You will have Power in Domains you weren’t aware of before.

Do EHP’s with others when Emotions come up. This will help unleash dams and Blocks that keep us from being the same way we are now, playing a role.

6. YOUR ARE A TIME MAKER - FOR ANYTHING AND YOUR WILDNESS Consciously take blocks of time to allow wildness to come through you. To experience this wildness, do things without censoring yourself. Don’t allow your Mind to take over. WE have long packed away this wildness for Fear of changing our image. There is no difference between 'Gremlin Feeding Time' and allowing the unconscious state to take over.

7. CHANGE THE STORY AT RUN BY SHIFTING IDENTITY All your Identities and start changing them from unconscious to conscious. Catch yourself in an Identity (i.e.: perfectionist, victim, sneaky one….) then Shift Your Identity to a new character with a new story. (i.e.: enter the Dragon and let something else speak, present the Goddess, reveal yourselves)

What seems true in one Identity is not even a thing in another one. If you are: Do you really need to be sly, shy and invisible? Who Chooses? Who do you choose to be? What do you create? Why? Who do you want to be? - Your Practice, your choice!

8. COME CLOSER, MUCH CLOSER, EVEN MORE CLOSE See what happens when you get very close to the Zoom screen….close enough so we can see your pores. Stay there and be seen.

What happens?

9. BREAK YOUR OWN RULES TO BREAK FREE FROM YOUR OWN CONSTRAINTS Behave consistently in an inconsistent way (i.e.: be silent when you normally talk, stop judging when you normally judge, keep something for yourself when you normally give away without hesitance, etc...).

This way you Become Subversive to the limits of your Inner Structure and outdated Memetic Constructs. You Manipulated yourself in order to survive. Being consitently inconsitent is subversive to your own Survival Strategies.

Write an Article sharing your insights. Your Path might inspire others. The World needs more Free And Natural Adults who are Taking A Stand using their Real Voice by responsibly Choosing what they want. Your conscious inconsitency is one step towards this Possibility.

10. WHAT YOU DON'T SEE IS MADE INVISIBLE BY ... YOU! Look for people you “can’t see” on the streets, and then talk to them. See what they are up to. They are probably not normal people.

What is Normal? Your Box and Survival Strategies have a very selective perception. These Parts of you make you select Your Attention

11. Re-invent yourself in a certain way to Jack into your archetypal lineage.

12. Notice the purpose for your interactions. If you find yourself purposeless, then lay on the floor until you do what you really want to do. Could be hours there. Only move when you have a purpose. What kind of wildness can come out as a result.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. NOBODY CAN TURN YOU INTO A ... Persecutor, Rescuer, Victim. These 3 roles are nesserary to have a life full of Low Drama. Low Drama are all the stories you create about pretending to have no Responsibility. Especially when you try to convince yourself to be a victim, you pretend to have no Responsibilty. Without a victim, there is no Low Drama.

To take back the power of Choosing about this, it helps to use and recognize the following metaphore as true: What you have is what you want. This is a gateway to Responsibility. Because what you wanted is what you have chosen (... at least some Parts of you).

Compare that metaphore to living in the fantasy of that you are the victim of the circumstances. Which story gives you more Power?

Today, go Change something internally or externally that allows you to feel like a victim. De-victimize yourself by taking Responsibility. You decide about the story instead of the story deciding over you!

2. WRITE FROM YOUR RELATIONAL EXPERIENCES Write a 2 page article about the learning you have received from being in relationship. BE radically honest!

Through society, church, movies and advertisements people have been trained from their youth to long for stability in Relating. But this longed for stability is a fantasy world and a dead space. It is mechanical.

If you have been living in relationship and know about this, write about it!

This is a doorway for others to connect with you. Share the treasures and dark shadows, especially about when the bottom falls out and all stability vanishes.

Also write about your discoveries regarding how to stay at the balance point in between the dillusional stories of everything is fine & everything is horrible. Write from your Experience of being at this instable place of Creation: Relating is ongoing Nonlinear Creation!!!

3. IF SOMETHING OR SOMEONE STOPS YOU FROM BEING LOVING Love is always accessible and everpresent, because Love is archetypal. Archetypal forces are forces of Nature. We can learn to access them.

NOTE: Archetypal Love is everywhere, but usually it is us people, who are not aware of it. Your Attention might be with something else.. You are Hooked into a story.

If you want to be loving in a situation, find out who or what stops you. Make it clear. Write down three sentences starting with: 'I am hindered to be loving because ...'

Now you have created a leverage Power to Change the story that you are hooked into by creating more Consciousness: Change the written down circumstances and create new results.

You are sourcing Love!

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. IF YOU DON'T HAVE A CONSCIOUS PURPOSE, UNCONSCIOUS PURPOSES HAVE YOU The 1^st purpose of Box is survival (see Survival Strategies). Your Box is an unconscious set of Rules, Buttons, Books, Triggers and old Thoughtware leading to predictable Reactivity. It is mechanic and has saved your life until now. Something else is possible: Survival is distinct from Living Full Out.

For example:

Survival = fighting against scarcity. Living = Creation.

Survival = defending & attacking. Living = Negotiation.

Survival = being an irresponsible victim. Living = taking Radical Responsibility.

Consciously Make your purpose Evolution, Transformation or expansion instead of survival. See what changes.

2. YOU HAVE A BOX. PEOPLE HAVE A BOX. EVERYONE HAS A BOX Next time you walk down the street, notice how Your Box unconsciously, and for its survival, makes stories about others.

Next, sit in a public place with another, and scan to see if you can read peoples Boxes. Then make conscious stories up about their Boxes and share them with your experiment-partner sitting next to you. Notice the difference between the Box and the Being of the Person that your are scanning.

If you cannot see their Box, it’s possible they have more Matrix than you. Talk to them and see what might happen.

3. YOUR BOX IS OPTIONAL. SO ARE ALL THE OTHER OPTIONS Hold your palm open and at your side. Use your Clicker to shrink down Your Box into the palm of your hand. Now, without the protection of Your Box, notice how you relate to other people, problems, and what’s possible in Your Being. Without Box' protection in the way, modern culture is subverted.

Notice entirely new ways of speaking & being.

4. LIFE IS TRANSFORMATIONAL AND THIS CAN BE CELEBRATED

Do an EHP about a loss in your life...could be the loss of Your Box as you knew it. You must go into a Liquid State for change to happen. Grieve your old Identity, old stories, old Illusions. Each tiny death needs a Liquid State for change to occur. You must feel each Feeling of Sadness, Fear, Anger and Joy for change to happen. Then celebrate each Feeling expressed.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. TURN YOUR BOX' HABITS AROUND Your Box has preferences because they mean safety for Your Box.

We generally scan other people and talk to those who have similar Boxes. GO talk to the people who are invisible to you. Tell them: “I am doing an experiment of talking to people who I do not notice right away. Would you be willing to tell me why you are not notice-able to me?

Do this experiment for the rest of the year. Go to those who you resonate with the least. Write an Article about your discoveries!

2. PAYING ATTENTION TO HOW YOU TAKE CARE Learning to take care of yourself is Phase 1 of Adulthood. Phase II of Adulthood is living your life in wellbeing. It follows Phase I.

BUT you cannot go to Phase II without having completed Phase I - which is being able to completely take care of yourself in any circumstances (Say Stop, Make Boundaries, have your Real Voice and First Position)

This involves the nessecity, that you know what you are capable of..

Practice Phase I:

Pay attention to how you take care of yourself. Write it down. When you can trust yourself to take care of yourself then it expands your horizons and prepares you for Phase II - Living Full Out as a Free And Natural Adult.

3. READ A BOOK FROM THE LIST OF RECOMMENDED BOOKS

a. Gifts Of Unknown Things by Lyle Watson.

b. Then, read another extraordinary book from the List..

4. THOSE WHO LOOK ARE THOSE WHO SHALL SEE ... AND FIND THE NEW Closely investigate the Purpose of Your Box. The more you look at something the more you are able to change it. By Expanding Your Box (also see Expand The Box Training) you have more freedom to change your behaviors. In this case Expand Your Box by making a list of 5-10 for each of your Boxes'..

a. Buttons b. Hooks c. Triggers d. Traumas e. Voices f. Imbalances

Set your inner alarm (Purpose Sniffer) for every item on your List. Each time one of these is about to secretly take over your behaviour, let your Purpose Sniffer GO WILD! MEEP! MEEP! MEEP!

Then - Do anything else but what your Reactivity (a.-f.) suggests you. This is your life and your change of behaviors!

5. The Transformational Sabatical - A Must Don't Do Anything: Notice how you have created your current reality. Tiredness could mean you are going through a transformational Process and are inbetween Phase 1 & Phase II of a 3 Phase-Healing Process.

Take 1, 2, or 3 days to do nothing but sleep.

Don’t read, watch movies, or be on your phone...

Sleep!

6. CREATE A VACUUM LEARNING ENVIRONMENT FOR YOURSELF Get with another and use the vacuum method to receive Feedback. Learn about the process on the Vacuum Learning website.

For 2 weeks have 3 weekly meetings together and practice the process of Vacuum Rapid Learning, both as a Client and a Coach.

- Create sessions of 60 minutes with -

a. 5 minutes check-in in the beginning

b. 25 minutes per person (switch Client and Coach role)

c. 5 minutes for reviewing in the end.

As a Coach, you are Radically Relating to your Client by Listening, Asking true and vulnerable questions showing your curiousity, gratitude, care and acceptance.

As a Client, you are in Radically Reliance to the unfolding of your own Process. It might be a magical journey!

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. FROM THE POSSIBILITY FILM LIST Watch the movie Hook by Steven Spielberg for a heart opening experience and possible Liquid State. To be in an authentic Liquid State means you are evolving. Evolution happens faster and more severe when you do it in a Team. Go invite your Team over to have a transformational movie night with a discussion afterwards about what touched you and what changed you.

2. YOUR MECHANICS ARE JUST MECHANICS To be free of them, you got to know them. Otherwise you don't know how Your Box operates and you simply follow the behavior patterns you installed years ago for being able to survive modern culture's insanities.

Look at Your Box with detailed Clarity. Make notes in your Beep! Book in an extra chapter called: MY BOX MECHANISMS.

To sharpen your Clarity, read and learn about the 18 Boxes. Which one('s) do you use? Becoming aware of this frees us from being trapped and is great for Box Expansion. Then, when you are skilled in scanning your own Box with Clarity - provide your skills to another person by offering to scan their Box. Show them how to keep researching for themselves.

3. YOUR TEAMS AND PARTNERS HAVE VALUABLE FEEDBACK FOR YOU Doing the lone-wolf thing can be extremely exhausting, unsuccesful and no fun except having the ecstacy of doing maniac isolated work. For many of us, it is an underworld behavior to do things just by myself.

If this is your case, you are missing out on the High Level Fun of being in a Team, Becoming Commited to another persons Commitment, receiving Beep-Shift-Go! Feedback, Holding Space for each other and Making Legends by being on your evolutionary Path. Grab another person and commit to doing Experiments with each other. Become An Experimenter!

You can use a Metaconversation about Questions as a doorway into the Extraordinary.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. YOU ARE HAVING FEELINGS WHEN YOU THINK OF SOMETHING ELSE Lower your Numbness Bar for each Feeling so you can feel the lower levels (0-10%). For Example: I feel 8% angry that the fridge is making noise….keep going. Feelings are there 24/7 and are an Archetypal Resource. Use it daily asking what is the Feeling (Anger, Fear, Sadness, Joy) telling me?

Lower your Numbness Bar for each Feeling and speak about as many things as you can think about..

2. ASSUMING YOUR ASSUMTIONS ARE TRUE IS MAKING AN EXPECTATION When you assume that your Assumption is true, it turns into an Expectation. Expectations are immediately poisonous for any other Relating than Gremlin-Relating, because they only can be failed. And a failed Expectation creates Resentment and Disappointment - thanks to Your Gremlin..!

Go the next step and figure out what the benefit/motivation of you and your Gremlin is, to assume that your Assumptions are true.
Write down what you discover on a page dedicated to your 'Shadow Purposes Research'.

3. BECOME AN ASSUMPTION RESEARCHER Track your Assumptions, write them down, then see how long you can go without making any Assumptions.

4. FIGHTING PATRIARCHY OR CREATING ARCHIARCHY - WITHING YOURSELF Practice letting your shape go soft so you can welcome Archiarchy into the next situation your are in rather than fighting with the Patriarchy.

Patriarchy and Archiarchy are Gameworlds. On Gameworld Theory you find our updated version of R. Buckminster Fuller's observation - we say:"You never change things by fighting against the existing Gameworlds. You change things by building new Gameworlds that make the existing Gameworlds irrelevant."

Can you make Patriarchy irrelevant by changing your shape?

How?
Write an Article about it!

5. USING YOUR PHYSICAL BODY TO AVOID FEELING To avoid feeling is part of the Survival Stragies that you and other people most likely have built. This was nessecary for survival. Feeling consciously is not survival. Feeling unconsciously though often is.

To end survival and enter living as a Free And Natural Adult in Adulthood, you need to discover how survival works.

Start here: Notice what people are unconsciously doing physically that is blocking their Feelings: Biting lips, crossing arms, ...

Then tell them what you are noticing.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. YOU DON'T NEED TO FIX WHAT IS - THAT WOULD BE JUDGING AGAIN When practicing Self Observation, don’t try to fix anything. Just notice your Survival Strategies, Your Judgements, Your Old Thoughtware, Your Reactivity, Your Assumptions, Your Resentments, Your Expectations, the Patriarchy in you, Your Reasons, Your Revenge, Your Shadow Principles, Your Denial, Your Lying, Your Prejudices, Your Story World, Your Fantasy Worlds, Your Fear Of Connection, Your Adaptiveness, Your Box Technology, Your Gremlin, Your ...

...I think you get the point.
Fighting and fixing all this enforces their power - instead: Practice Self Observation and feel the pain of what you notice and notice how long you have been doing this. Just noticing will allow the force of observation to start making the changes.

2. EXPERIMENT WITH INQUIRY Avoid asking for feedback, instead ask for Explanations. Open the Vacuum space with a question.'What could change so I can connect with you better?'

3. FEAR IS USEFUL FOR INCREASING YOUR QUALITY OF RELATING In case you are missing ways of Relating that nurture Your Being - here is a question: Are you afraid to not find what you wish for, in any next moment?

If so, you have just discovered a powerful allie to create what you are missing. Your Fear. Your Fear has energy and information for you that you can use to sensitively navigate and Negotiate Intimacy with someone else. Use your Fear as a guideline to determine what to negotiate with another person. Ask your Fear: 'Hello Fear, what do you have for me?' ... Use the information and energy you get from your Fear to make an Offer for Intimacy. Re-negotiate any moment your Fear has new energy and information for you! You never need to stop doing this - practice Radical Relating.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. PRACTICE USING YOUR FEELINGS Rather Than Letting Your Feelings Use You. Any questions? - Hopefully you are raising both arms and are shouting 'YES!'.
Your Feelings are part of your Infinite Resources. They are unlimited. This means unlimited Practice. Unlimited Unknown. Unlimited Edges. Unlimited Transformation. And unlimited Questions.

• Hello Fear, what do you have for me? ...
• How come I am so confused?
• How come I am feeling mad / sad / glad / scared?
• How come I am angry and I am crying tears?
• How come I am scared and choosing to hide?
• How come I am freezing when talking to a group?
• How can I stop numbing myself?
• How can I feel less isolated?
• How can I feel more Connection?
• How can I Make Boundaries?
• How can I speak from my Feelings?
• How can I ...?
• What other questions do I have?

Your Questions are Doorways towards the mastery of your Feelings. Ask. Feel. Practice. Explore. Share. Ask again. Feel again. Practice again. Explore again... And so on - Welcome to Archiarchy.

2. COMPLETE INCOMPLETE EMOTIONS FROM THE PAST Whatever incomplete Emotions you carry, they are your Baggage. Baggage is blocking your from moving forward. Completing incomplete emotions is one way to trop Baggage. Spend the first hour of your next family gathering doing this i.e.: 'I never told you how glad I was to hear you tell me what a great math student I was...I never told you how sad I was you didn't come with us on holidays because you were busy...I never told you how scared I was asking you for a hug longer than 4 seconds...' -

3. GET A SENSE OF YOUR ARCHETYPAL WARRIOR/ESS Who is turned on in you (your anger). Sit back, close your eyes, picture it in your mind. Take a deep breath, and allow this to become your self identify. Feel the Warrior/ess inside you in your nerves & let your body awaken with that level of guardianship, alertness, action, taking care of things. Take another deep breath and let your sadness stellate, the one who is vulnerable, might disappear, and is undefended. Let that one stand beside the Warrior/ess. Let the stellated fear, the creator, no control, Joyful ungroundedness, allowing for surprise and non-linearity, the wizard, the lady of the lake, all inside you create the sword/sorceress giving back to you as the giver. Let her stand next to the fear and anger. She’s the space-holder and has direct access to abundance. The one who is empowered, shares this power, and feels no scarcity. Standing next to the Sorceress is the lover and Warrior/ess. Keep breathing. Slowly open your eyes and look at another person. See these parts in them and speak about what you see.

4. MINIMIZE YOUR NOW AND NOTICE THE ARCHETYPAL QUALITIES IN OTHERS Walk up to them one at a time and speak about what you see.

5. READ SPARK 205 AND THEN ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS How do we keep our authority and the pain we cause by putting people on a pedestal? Do the experiment of seeing how people put you on a pedestal and how you put people on a pedestal.

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1. ALLOW QUIET MOMENTS TO EXIST WITHOUT MAKING CONVERSATION when in a room with others.

2. ASK FOR AN EMOTIONAL HEALING PROCESS when emotions are present: ie doing something the right way or you will get punished

3. NOTICE HOW OFTEN YOU USE THE WORDS NEVER OR ALWAYS for the next week. Catch yourself and see how your box is defending you.

4. NOTICE WHEN YOUR GREMLIN IS OFF IT'S LEASH (ie arguing with someone) Kindly put it back on it’s leash. Instead of arguing, join the other persons research or ask them to say more about that, thank them for their point of view, mean it.

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1. CREATE A LIST OF 50 FOODS YOUR GREMLIN EATS, AND THEN PUT IT ON A DIET FOR 5 OF THESE GREMLIN FOODS Note what the price is for letting Gremlin eat each food. Now your Gremlin will be seen (awake, empowered and in your service) and you can use it consciously, rather than it sneaking around trying to survive.

2. GET CLARITY ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE COMITTING TO which comes with your sword so you can make better chocolate/love/relationships. The sword is to make better chocolate. The clarity is to make yummy space. You must have both or the space becomes adaptive. I’m committing to something else besides your comfort. Clarity precludes intimacy.

3. GET USED TO IMPROVISING and be in awe for what appears. Watch around the world in 80 days. It’s about form & formlessness. Without distinctions there isn’t enough clarity in the space.

4. GO TO http://decontaminationprocess.mystrikingly.com Get a buddy and together decontaminate your Gremlin Ego States.

5. USE YOUR BEEP BOOK AND DISTINGUISH WHICH IS TALKING You might find 20 identities. THen ask for help identifying which identity is speaking.

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. MOVIE RECOMMENDATION In and of Itself

2. USE CONSCIOUS ANGER TO KEEP THE INTERNAL FIRE INSIDE YOU LIT and to respond to external stimulus such as: clean the closets, pay bills, maintain eye contact, say YES and NO.

3. MOVE FROM ORDINARY SPACES (STORIES, COMPLAINING) TO EXTRAORDINARY by leaning into the conversation and energetically moving it to extraordinary.

4. ASK NON-LINEAR QUESTIONS INSTEAD OF 'how are you'?

5. GIVE 5 DIFFERENT ANSWERS WHEN PEOPLE ASK 'how are you?'

6. FOR THE NEXT WEEK take off your layers of niceness and be real/authentic.

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1. Hang out for 3 to 6 months in old decisions that go deep into your body until you gain clarity. Allow treasures to come out of your old painful decisions, and make new decisions.

2. Allow yourself to cry for 3 days. Grieve the lack of responsibility people take in order to protect life on earth.

3. Begin tracking little ways you are avoiding responsibility. How do you numb yourself? Keep an irresponsibility journal. Your self observations stay neutral! Responsibility is the basis for extraordinary relationships.

4. Start taking ownership for the ways you have not taken responsibility.

5. Write down all the jobs you see that need to be done, like picking up litter. When you see a job that needs to happen, then it’s your job to make sure it gets done.

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1. When going through a strong liquid state, try holding your fists together and yelling yahhhhhhhh to move the space you are in. You can do this in public to create legend making.

2. Ask yourself: am I doing this work (PM) because I want to, or because this is part of the program, the next practice….? Am I being adaptive to another context, or am I doing PM for me? Your answer can only be experiential, not an intellectual decision.

3. Ask yourself: Am I doing a PM practice because I love it, or for seeking approval? Looking for approval means giving someone else more authority than you have. You can tell by self observation, or looking at the evidence. You are giving your center away when depending on someone else’s opinion.

4. Practice is not orthogonal. Remember to enjoy the ride whichever way it goes.

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1. Look at the website Muse on mystrikingly, and do the set of recommended experiments. Experiments help build matrix and new possibilities.

2. Focus on starting a new behavior and watch the old behavior disappear.

3. Keep an irresponsibility journal and Pay attention to how you are trying to get away with stuff. What do you avoid noticing, what do you avoid taking responsibility for?

4. Practice one or two experiments at a time to prevent overwhelm (box mechanism). Pace yourself according to what most interests you.

5. Practice experiments and make changes. Take baby steps consistently over time for long term change.

6. Do experiments in Spark #135 to address ego states.

7. Notice the voices in your head that drag you down. Practice shooting those voices with your voice blaster to get rid of them.

8. Take the sadness of not getting needs met, put them in your hands, say goodby to the pain and brush it off into the moving river of time. Let it drift back into the past as a memory. Pull out a golden pearl of your own wisdom, drop it over your head so it fills up the space where the pain was occupied in the past. What is left is adult ego state.

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1. Pick one story you have about your life that is like a stake in the ground. Stop giving that story attention, or change your story to something that really matters to you now. Old stories only have power in our memories.

2. Connect with someone and allow silence during the conversation. Enjoy being in silent connection with them, even if they ask you questions. Stay connected. speak when it’s time, and speak from an extraordinary space.

3. When you walk at the speed of mind you are walking faster than the speed of love. Practice walking with another at the speed of love, which is sauntering. Be in another’s space without doing the blah blah blah thing.

4. Anne-Chloe recommended a Book by Derek Jensen called Walk On Water. Find experiments in it that are edgy and different from PM experiments. Do these experiments in PM teams.

5. Next time you are told a victim story, do not rescue or buy into it. You will then be in adult ego state.

6. Do all the experiments with your PM team in the mystrikingly website “becomeunhookable”. Then practice becoming unhookable! When you get hooked you are no longer in adult ego state.

7. Do all the experiments in mystrikingly website “becomepresent”. Adult ego state includes Paying attention, holding space, conscious listening and speaking with genius.

8. Give a work-talk about how to hold and navigate a space. Notice what your purpose is when you navigate each space.

9. Determine the ways you are not committing to the space between you and another, or others. Decide to commit or leave the space!

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1. What are you going to create? Take a big risk this week and upgrade your necessity for what you need to learn about. What’s a step you can take towards this end? Take back your authority to refuse to accept how others diagnose you. Who are you when there is no conflict? when you don’t have to respond to a demand? Invent the next scene and respond by exploring who you are. Ask and answer the questions!

2. Create an ongoing possibility team which is an experimental space, where dangerous questions are asked and feedback is given. This can give you clarity and possibility (new perspectives) for your next step. Look at the website possibilityteam on my strikingly.

3. Transform incompetence into competence. Behave in new more effective ways, knowing you will also fail. Stay in the space when you fail. Be conscious about practicing your new competence which will create a new shape in you...until it’s not new anymore. This builds matrix

4. Practice creating new actions with your possibility team. New results come from new actions.

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1. Listen to the National anthem of the Nanonation of Possibilica: “The keep going on Song.”

2. Going from unconscious to conscious: As soon as you get competence in a skill or area, take the next uncomfortable step to keep going.

3. Watch interview on dis-illusionment: see website with Clinton interviewing Naomi

4. New results only come from taking new actions: Change behavior patterns in your life in order to create new levels of relationship with yourself and others. Your daily actions come easily to you, often by unconscious reflex. New actions require consciousness along with will power, and then action. What do you really want? Break out of your own pigpen and try some unfamiliar, uncomfortable things.

5. Create new concepts in your mind and take new actions once a day. A new conscious connection has to be made, and will power has to be involved.

6. Change your old decision about learning or anything else and make a new decision. Say this statement out loud on a daily basis. I am changing my mind and have decided that I like to learn (or anything else you want to make a new decision about).

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1. Are you living your intention or being adaptive? Being adaptive could be in the form of giving your authority away to concepts, rules , social patterns, beliefs, old comments from a teacher, or trying to adapt into others expectations: Experiment: lay down in a quiet place and close your eyes. Avoid outer thoughts. Assume that this is what you get to explore as your life. See what other dimensions inside yourself come up. Put your intention on your intention to see what your purpose is. You can discover faculties of awareness and discovery that you didn’t know were there in the past. In this dark quiet space you avoid all the outer low drama suffering and painful events that sucks energy. Don’t move until it is an authentic move and you are sure of it.

2. Must go through a liquid state for change to occur: When you find yourself in a liquid state in one or more of your bodies, notice what is happening in those bodies. Align with your liquid state as it is, no story attached. Notice if change has occurred. Change doesn’t happen without an intention, and a way to use the change in a transformational way.

3. “As Ising” Sit there with nothing going on. Whatever liquid state you are in, notice it, be with it, and you will come out the other side. When you can be with what the low drama thing is, the low drama charge goes away. There are no stories. “This too shall pass” Being in a liquid state does not mean you will come out of it and transform. There has to be an intentionality going through it and coming out of it. Question to ask: is it a real liquid state or reactivity.

4. For Edge-workers who feel exhaustion and need integration: Spend 3 days and nights in bed. No reading, writing, watching, listening…..just lay there and sleep/rest. This will allow integration and cure your exhaustion. Join a support team with 2 others for support while integration happens.

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1. Start holding emotional healing processes (EHP’s). You will learn just as much about yourself as your clients learn about themselves. Hold about 50 free EHP’s. After that start charging about 100 Euros for each space you hold. After doing another 100 or more processes, you can then charge $150 to $200 Euros.

2. Look at your relationship patterns: With sexual partners there is a fight and fuck Pattern. It’s a pattern without changing or upgrading the love you have for each other. It keeps the gremlin feeding unconsciously. With friends one can fight and then get mushy and make up. This is the same pattern. The only solution is to let it crash, go cold turkey. Pick one relationship and go cold turkey so something else can be created. Check out the info on my strikingly called Poop on the Table. Every piece of poop is a doorway to a new opportunity.

3. Authenticity…..Speak from the unknown: Don’t rehearse what you will say. Do Not say something for the sake of talking. Have no idea what you will say. Wait until the unknown pops up in your mind without analyzing it, and then take the risk to speak it.

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1. Become more aware and authentic about your inauthenticities: Notice where you are being inauthentic, own it and speak about it to others. Use self observation to discover what is authentic. Step outside yourself and observe your speech and behaviors. Notice what feels authentic and what does not by lowering your numbness bar. Notice the physical sensations you have when you are inauthentic. Look at Parts on my strikingly so you can see who is showing up in your conversations.

2. Notice what drives your conversations and actions: Which I is talking (ie, mom, dad, school, culture? child, parent, gremlin?). Ask yourself what you need right now in order to speak with authenticity. How can I be naked/exposed without a plan. Ask, why am I afraid?

3. Other websites mentioned:

http//becomepresent.mystrikingly.com

http//becomecentered.mystrikingly.com

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1. Practice consciously feeding your gremlin: When you have emotional activity, when trying to be right, justify, or wanting to get revenge, these are all ways your gremlin avoids responsibility. When you get conscious about what your gremlin is up to, feed it something on purpose so it doesn’t need to stay in the underworld; give it a job that your box can’t do, make interesting offers to interesting people, hold different kinds of spaces, let your gremlin choose from a menu normally not given to you that feed your gremlin in a conscious manner. Conscious gremlin keeps you at the edge of your box

2. Make a list of 50 of your gremlin’s foods: Read gremlinmystrikingly.com

3. Become courageous and engage in inter-relatedness (ie living together with others). It can be messy, and also alive. The feedback you are getting from others will tell you what you are creating in the world. This is the benefit of living with others…..you get immediate feedback, which makes life less safe and more dangerous. The way you can know if you have changed is when you are getting different feedback from others.

4. Become the source of ecstasy by calling something perfect

5. Visit people in person who are participating on this zoom call: Going on adventures together can be catalytic ,causing stuff to be exchanged, and offering more possibilities.

6. Being “good” is not necessarily being responsible. It is easy to have this confusion. It is possible to suffer decades of inauthenticity by being “good”. If I am not being good or bad, for or against, it’s about being who I am, and who you want to become with growth opportunities. It is full of psychological, physical and sexual abuse to stay in a relationship where you play good. It is not easy to become an authentic person instead of a “good person”.

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1. Teach another person how to talk to you in your language. (how can they better communicate with you), once a day for a whole week. Then let the other person teach you how to talk and listen to them in their language. Practice communicating in each others languages.

2. Keep your attention on unconscious voices that have found their way into your heart (unconscious drivers). If they are old memorized voices and do not benefit you, shoot them and create new voices to memorize that propel you forward with conscious attention.

3. Check out the website called become present on mystrikingly. Do some of the experiments on this site. Relationship is about “Being together”. it must have our attention and our presence for relationship to blossom and grow.

4. Where your attention goes your energy flows. You can do this consciously or unconsciously. Look at the shadow parts of yourself to keep your attention on your attention and stay awake. Place your attention consciously.

5. How to practice keeping your attention on your attention: take your possibility stone and rub it between your fingers. Notice the heat, what does the stone feel like. Keep your attention on the stone for a couple of minutes each day. You can learn to move your attention from one place to another. Practice this.

6. Get rid of things you don’t need. Each thing you own, owns you by taking energy away from you.

7. Split your attention and keep your attention in both arenas.

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1.How does your belief system affect your connections/relationships? Any belief system has a bullshit factor. Ask yourself and your possibility team to detect your beliefs and the bullshit involved with your beliefs. Write them down and question your beliefs. How do they serve you, especially in your relationships.

2. Take apart your beliefs before your beliefs destroy your relationships. Gremlins love this battle of I’m right your are wrong, which destroy relationships and limit possibilities.

3. Discover the part of yourself that is consciously human rather than animal: sit cross legged stretch your hands out sideways, palms facing outward with fingers pointed up towards the sky. Stay in this position for 20 minutes. The animal screams at you that this hurts and I am going to die. The animal tells you to put your arms down. The 2^nd time you do this it will become clearer why this is important. Developing discipline lets you differentiate between your animal body and conscious body. This builds matrix.

4. Extraordinary relationship depends on you staying unhookable: The instant you get hooked you are stuck in ordinary human relationship. Practice knowing when you are hooked. Take responsibility by saying “I am hooked” and then what hooked you. Write it down., and do an emotional healing process. This will shift your hookability by shifting your box. Look at the reactivity site on my strikingly. Learn to Open a space rather than shutting down the space by getting hooked.

5. There are 25 ways to stay unhookable explained in RJBL. Practice this one: place 100% of your attention on noticing what is, as it is, in the moment, right now.

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1. Allow your hidden purposes to be conscious and seen. First step is to notice what your purpose is for communications or actions.

2. You can stay relational in ordinary conversations without giving up your authority or your context. No need to contradict ordinary conversations, put up walls or feel superior. Do the experiments, gain the skills and create the extraordinary.

3. Know and upgrade your Nits. Practice de-constructing your nits so your box will not crystallize you inside your box. Nit picking eats away at relationships, and is part of your box. This part of your box keeps you from getting close to others. Traveling to other countries will activate your nits. They will freak out. It’s a good way to practice being flexible with your nits.

4. Look at the list of 100 possible nits in RJBL.

5. Practice living/working with others. This allows you to become conscious/aware about your nits. Negotiate how to handle each nit which will build matrix.

6. Take responsibility for your nits…. raise your awareness so low drama gremlin does not happen.

7. Negotiate new kinds of intimacy by looking at your nit reactivity. Keep putting your nits on the table. How much of your aloneness/separateness is built around not having to be adaptive or confrontational because you never had the power of negotiating your nits. How much of your life is built out of shrinking back because you are a woman and you have no power to initiate the masculine power. What can change, what is possible. What is your strategy….being adaptive or blaming others? How much of your life is built out of unconscious nit reactivity. How much ecstacy/intimacy can you create in a space? This is high level fun.

8. Start a possibility team this week. Ask them how to negotiate your nits in a way that encourages connection.

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1. Ian McKenzie film maker; interviewed women asking questions about men. How does this land with you? It is posted on Next culture Radio if you are interested in answering this question.

2. Practice rubbing a possibility stone (or your fingers) when wanting to transport yourself into the small now.

3. Practice staying present during high intensity conversations: Pick 3 people you’re having tension with, let them know about this tension that you are feeling so you can have an adult conversation about it. Say you want to listen to them. Make a grounding cord in the space and allow the extra energy to go down the cord so you can focus on what they are saying. let the energy go down the cord and practice listening to what they are saying. Do not justify, defend yourself, or try to be right. Thank them for telling their story, and say I didn’t know that. Notice how the energy has shifted in your body.

4. For the next 2 weeks, Notice love happening in each space you are in. Regardless of the topic of conversation, or who is speaking, sink out of your mind, into your body and focus on the love happening. The indicator of love happening is feeling it in your nervous system. Split your attention if the negativity is coming in your direction, and then you can be fed by it. This creates space between the two of you. Where your attention goes, energy flows….create the joy of love.

5. Complete communications, even when disagreements are present so that love can happen. We are really good at defending ourselves thus not allowing love to happen. Blocking love happening and not completing conversations equals ordinary human relationships. For extraordinary love to occur, must practice communicating feelings.

6. Practice communicating your feelings by saying: I feel mad, glad, sad or scared because (say what is bothering you). You can also add what I would like is (say what you want to change, & accept it if you do not get what you want. Accept that you cannot control anyone but yourself and your actions)

7. Stop creating roadblocks and offer completion loops instead so they feel heard. Examples of roadblocks are: giving an order, demand, threat, advice or solutions, lectures, Judgements, morals, praise, shame, interpretations, reassurances, interrogations, withdrawing or distracting. Roadblocks are ways your box stays the same, avoids taking responsibility, andavoids deepening the relationship. If you block the message, then you don’t have to take responsibility for dealing with the emotions of the other person, or shifting the relationship.

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1. Use completion loops so the other person feels heard. You can also use them when you disagree, or are unsure your communication got through. If differences come up, Accept them and decide if you want to continue the conversation. If someone is arguing with you, or you are making offers that they are refusing, use a completion loop and decide if you want to continue to be in the conversation. Check out the communication map on my strikingly. IE: you never take me to the beach Communication Loop possibility: Are you wanting to argue with me now? Really take responsibility for understanding what they are saying, rather than your own agenda, and then decide if you want to remain in the conversation.

2a. Have a conversation about what is really going on rather than being adaptive with people. This is usually about feelings. IE Mom, I am afraid you will feel rejected and sad if I do not want to accept your invitation for lunch, rather than saying yes when you really do not want to go.

2b. Adapt to nothing and withhold nothing For 6 months. Do this with responsible adults, rather than your children or the law. Look at the map of problem ownership first.

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1. Shift into being something different. Learn how to “crash”, fall, fail, get difficult feedback, or “hit a wall” well in order to learn a new skill and evolve.

2. Find out what the payoff is when you have unconscious box to box conflicts and write this in your beepbook.

3. Choose to change your mind about what offends you. Next time you feel offended ask yourself what is this thing that I am offended about. Write this in your beep book.

4. Practice being authentic with others by not walking on eggshells or taking care of their feelings. Do not be adaptive or protect others from feeling.

5. Become more conscious and present by getting to know, and taking ownership of your voices (parent, gremlin, child). Decontaminate these voices with a team. Start by doing Gremlin work. Vera is working with others to get to know and train your gremlin.

6. Behave in a way that is outside your box, something you would never do or say. How long can you stay in unknown and unpredicted behavior? Explore this behavior like it is new territory. Stay mysterious and vulnerable, even to yourself. Keep in contact with those you are talking to and let the words come in the moment. Roll with it. Read a book about this magic by Robert Wolf called

7. Look at the site: http://splityourattention.mystrikingly.com

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1. Look at the websites; http://eyeoftheneedle.mystrikingly.comand http://baggage.mystrikingly.com Identify the baggage you are carrying with your 3 cell team. Walk through your house/apt. And ask each object; are you giving me energy or taking away energy? Baggage blocks us from experiencing extraordinary communications because baggage occupies our energy preventing us from being alive.

2. Notice your internal voices that cause pressure (parent, child, gremlin ego states). I am not good enough, I have to…..I should….Use a beep book to log all these conversations. Then ask, do you have anything else for me? Once they are heard, you can more easily let them go. Discover where you’re X is on the path.

3. Drop the practices you are doing for someone else. For every decision ask yourself, what do I want? If you get an energetic beep, change it. Do this over and over again until you become less adaptive. Change, I should, to I want.

4. Are things/relationships in your life giving you energy, or taking it away? Ask these questions over and over again for every item and relationship in your life.

5. Watch the film Pleasantville and notice how the people in the town relate with each other (Very Ordinary). Interact in ways you have never interacted before (using non-linear imagination to make your offers). This way you avoid getting into a rut in your relationships.

6. Explore all the possibilities at the websites http://freeandnaturaladult.mystrikingly.com and http://phase1phase2.mystrikingly.com and make use of as many of the new Distinctions as you can during your Radical Relating!

7. Practice calling the mystery into your relationships. This means you will not act predictably, or in a way that is expected. Look at the website http://gononlinear.mystrikingly.com

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NOTE: We are discovering that unless you are thrilled about actually doing the Experiments explained in these Study Groups - not simply thinking about doing them, but actually making mistakes, looking crazy, not knowing who you are or what you are doing while you are trying these experiments... unless you actually do the Experiments, nothing much will change for you. Understanding is necessary but insufficient to roll out the Yellow Brick Road. We encourage each of you to encourage the others to encourage you to become an Experimenter and to do the Experiments! They are fabulous Doorways to High Level Fun!

1. BE FULLY AT HOME EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE Experience the deep holy grounded wonderfulness of being Home. A couple times each week, let the 'home' experience flood in and completely overwhelm you for a few moments. Lay down on the floor sometimes, or better, in someone's arms, and let yourself sob uncontrollably from depth of your heart and the bottom of your belly with wonder and amazement of being truly Home here on Earth.
2. ESCAPE THE PRISON-WORLD OF REASONS Use Noticing and especially Self Observation to discover your deep fears about making decisions and actions unless they are thoroughly justified with 'really good' logical and socially-acceptable Reasons. Decide if your life belongs to you, or to your mind. Take your life back from your mind. Relocate your Point Of Origin from your Mind (the Center of your Intellectual Body) to the Center of your Being. If you do not wrestle your life away from your mind, then the only thing someone else gets to relate to is your Intellect, your understanding. This would be unrewarding for their Being, and also deeply unsatisfying for your Being. Find this unspoken dissatisfaction in your Being. Let the experience grow until your longing is bigger than your fear and you are willing to try Relating and interacting in the Domains that are beyond the grasp of Reasons. 
3. EXPLORE GAPS WHEN THEY ARISE Notice that there are sometimes Gaps in the script that you are using while interacting with someone across from you. They are not saying anything, and there is nothing obvious in that moment for you to say. Most times this is terrifying. In fact, many people invent and memorize 'topics' or 'themes' to speak about to fill the silence. Are you one of those people? This Experiment is to discover and unfold your hidden Potentials through fully entering those Gaps. In the Gap Void you can Discover what unencumbered uninhibited Being-to-Being connection provides for you. Learn to trust yourself and to trust the other person (or persons) is those Gaps. Let the Gaps thrive as Nonlinear Doorways through which vast valuable Resources can enter the Space. Notice your previous tendencies to avoid feeling your Unconscious Fears in those Gaps. Write down in your Beep! Book clear step-by-step descriptions of your various automatically-triggered Gap-filling or Gap-destroying or Gap-denying techniques that you have been using. Each technique you describe is a Door that you shut over a treasure-trove of intimacy Spaces not available for you until you choose to follow the fears back to their source and do the several layers of the related Emotional Healing Processes (EHP). This Experiment is to clearly detect your Box's and Gremlin's Gap-skipping Techniques, your desperate need to use them, and some possibilities of trying something else instead that brings you more aliveness. Practice setting your Techniques aside and entering fully into the Gaps so that external Resources can enter your Space of Relating in surprising and delightfully fruitful ways. Along the way, do not be surprised that it might have been a mistake of perspective to think of Gaps as small. The world of Gaps may be far vaster than the solid little island worlds. It is possible that by doing this experiment you may start preferring to inhabit the world of Gaps more than the known world.
4. CAVITATE NEW CULTURE SPACE This Experiment is to wake up each morning and exit your Dream World by Cavitating and Inhabiting New Culture Space. Over and over again, practice to consciously Cavitate New Culture Space. First get Centered, Grounded, Bubbled, and Clear (Sword out!) about the Context, Purpose, and Traditions of the Space you will Cavitate. Clapping your hands hard together is a large-scale Clicker that shakes up your physical world with a sharp pain so that your energetic world goes liquid enough that the new space can Cavitate. Create and inhabit your new culture Space with a Context and Traditions you would love to live in. Learn the ecstasies of living in a Parallel Culture with a conscious Purpose of your own making. Use Culture To Culture communication to relate with others intimately and Authentically  rather than being an Adaptive Chameleon pretending to be the same as them while hiding your uniqueness. That time of your life is over!

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